why us this is like romeo and juliet?

Question

for the past few months i meet someone and we both feel madly in love but when my parents found out they broke us up becuz i'm 15 soon to be 16 this month and he is 18 they told me even when i turn 16 i still can't see him i javen't talked to him in a few days i don't want to call becuz he might hate me becuz my dad told his parents i still love him and wanted to know if he still loves me he told me he couldn't live without me and wanted me to be his wifey we wrote each other love letters to keep in touch i'm so sad and it's driving me crazy not to know what he feels i want to know does he still love me i feel that i can't be without him my parents said he'd break my heart but we had sex more than onced and he was still there we talked about our future we build our life around each other and it's tearing me up inside that we can't be together how do i find out how he feels we live right by each other

Answer 1

your parents probably think your still too young, you have to respect that, however, why can't you just say that you're friends, keep the love on the low down? It's really sad that your parents won't let you see him. Is this your first true love?
At your age and at his I don't think you both realize what it really means to be madly in love with each other, in my opinion it's something you learn over time, but yes, you have very strong feelings for him as he does for you, to say it's love, well I would need other proof over a longer period of time. If it's only been a few months it's really hard to say for sure. Keep writing letters to each other, build a strong friendship with him and when your parents are ready to let you date then do it. However, please please keep in mind that just because a guy has sex with you on more than one occasion it doesn't neccesarliy mean he 'loves you' per se, so just be careful about that. The last thing you want to feel is like you've given him everything if he does turn his back on you (I'm not saying he will because there are decent guys out there it's the others that give them bad names).
Now, I'm sure parents aren't going to like this next bit, but I remember when I was 16, I met a guy who was 19 and my parents hated it and forbade me from seeing him, well.....I'd sneak out at night just to be with him, we'd stay together for a few hours and just watch the stars and talk. I was never busted so I guess I was lucky, it's a chance you take... Eventually they let me see him (after much much convincing that I could make my own decisions). Good luck my dear girl! Love will find a way!

Answer 2

I am sure that right now it may seem like the world is coming to an end. However I believe that if you are truly meant to be together then waiting patently for things to change should not be a problem. I would suggest that you find a way to have a sit down with your parents and the 2 of you. What is the age difference between your parents. If you use this in a logical and calm way you might just be able to persuade them. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 3

You are very young and this what pretty much what everyone has experienced when he or she has been in your age. He still loves you, I promise, and he is going through the same emotional things you are going right now. But he will move on before you. 14 or 15 is to early to plan for marriage or future. Your age is time for learning and experiencing. That way you can also guarantee your future that you will make the best decision when the time comes.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

LOL that is the LONGEST sentence ive EVER read!! hahaa congrats for that at least. im sure that if "ur madly in love" he wont hate you cause ur dad said something. give him a call. if you dont, then ur proving ur parents point by being to immature to hold such a serious relationship.

Answer 6

maybe it's b/c he was/is a little too old for you so you're parents are just being a little bit too protective, but I'm not sure if you should compare yourself to Romeo and Juliet b/c they both died in the end

Answer 7

I think you are young and still got a lot to come in your life. Chill and time will show you the right thing to do, jut remember our parents just try to keep us out of anything bad.

hopefully you will find a way of communicating and talk to him and explain.
Good luck

Answer 8

go call ur friend and tell her to call him and tell him to meet u somewhere then u can see him. or text him if u still have a phone or get on the computer and email him if u can.

Answer 9

in romeo and juliet they both die. lets hope the same doesn't happen to u two.

Answer 10

i know that if you read my answer you won't do it so im telling you know that i will only suggest it, sneak out at night to his room