I need help. Two guys like me HELP.
guy#1- shorter than me, blode hair, glasses, nice, BUT controlling.
He shows public affection by tickling me and stuff, but what do I do?
guy#2- taller than me, brown hair, brown eyes,nice, BUT sometimes ignores me. When he is around his friends, he ignores me, like he cant be seen with me, for some reason.
2007-03-02 09:10:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion is to go for guy #1... this is against what i would normally suggest because I am tall and think the guy SHOULD be taller than the girl. However, guy #2 is apparently ashamed of you in public and guy #1 shows you strong affection in public, proving that he really does like you and that is whats most important for a true, lasting relationship.
2007-03-02 09:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both.
Both guys are just being guys, but, it sounds like you are not thrilled with either of them.
Guys can be jerks to both a guy and the girl if the guy pays too much attention to the girl so in a way the one guy is protecting you, but, you obviously feel uncomfortable about it.
When I was younger I found it much easier to "prowl" on my own and generally date in couples or very small groups of couples because of experiences like this.
Most guys are not like girls and don't want to get between a guy and a girl, unless they are real jerks (like I used to be) so usually a guy who is interested will not ask you out if you are dating someone else.
In my experience girls want to date guys who are dating other girls and don't want to date guys who are not already involved with a different girl.
So by dating these guys you are inviting other girls to date them, so to speak, and you are preventing other guys who might be interested from asking you out.
I would dump both of them and then go out talking to guys. Don't look for a specific "type" of guy, just go out and talk to guys.
I went through different periods where I would only date specific "types" of women, skinny women, brunettes, over thirty, etc. Whatever stereotype worked for me back then. By the time I was twenty five I had settled down to looking more at the whole person and how I felt with them.
Course, even though I had been with over a hundred women I had a very miserable first marriage. My second marriage is going well after ten years. Maybe I finally got something right and maybe my experience will help you.
2007-03-03 03:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Controlling and Ignoring you are two precursors to a very unplesant relationship.
Guy #1 - If he is controlling you now, how do think he will behave later on donw the line when you have an arguement. Will he get physical? Maybe.
Guy #2 - If he can't bother to be seen with you around his friends, then you are not his one and only. He playing you and has a real girlfriend on the side. If his friends knew about you, then she would find out.
2007-03-02 09:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the blonde (guy #1) and then start ignore #2 like if he asks you to hang out say you're busy earlier but maybe later around 11pm - and pick a place that is private so you wont see lots of people - do this a few times and in between take turns with saying yes to a date and saying no to a date but dont be obvious with the pattern. After a few times of saying yes but later he will start to think that you dont want to be seen with him in public and VOILA - you have the upper hand in the relationship :)
2007-03-02 09:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by bells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick guy 3. He has no bad qualities. You didn't mention any bad qualities with guy 3 like the others. Guy 3 seems to have a lack of personality, but at the same time he has no bad qualities like the two others who can seem to be jerks. Sure, he has no name which is kind of odd, but sexy too if u think about it. So I would pick guy 3 and see how things work out
2007-03-02 09:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might like these guys but I wouldn't get involved with them because guy 1 is controlling and unless you really like to be told what to do I wouldn't go there.
Guy 2 on the other hand may feel that his friends do not approve of you or something.
2007-03-02 09:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by The Cactus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither of them. They both have bad down falls. I'm sure your young, move on. Do yourself the biggest favor of your life, DO NOT SETTLE, especially when it comes to men. Get exactly what you want.
2007-03-02 09:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taller you would look really tall if you dated a short guy......like my friend shorty (i dunt wanna say real name) he cant seem to find a date. I on the other hand get at least 17 dates per month
2007-03-02 09:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by orbitballmaster 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with the one like u very much u can know bcoz all of our fingers are not the same one is tall and one is short i mean they don't like u in the same dirction the first guy like u i thing but u try then choose
2007-03-02 09:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by the hiro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe guy #2 is playing "hard to get" or maybe he just doesnt want to seem pressed over you since ya'll arent dateing.. but if guy #1 really likes you..then give a chance.. you wont know till you try
2007-03-02 09:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋