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Question

Can you please tell me why only older men ask me out?
I am a 27 y/o single mother, and only men in their late 40's to 75 ask me out. I had a 57 y/o man come to my home and ask me out today, infront of my entire family! I am flattered, yet humiliated by these men and their numerous attempts to date me. Last week I had a man dress up in a chicken out fit out in my front yard saying "I'm looking for a chick" I don't dress provacative, most of the time I'm not wearing makeup, my hair a mess, and usually I don't even have a smile on my face. I don't get it. I don't in any way send these men ANY signals of interest. what am I doing wrong, and how can I stop all of this. I am currently not involved in a relationship, and feel like a liar when I tell them no, sorry I have a boyfriend. What is going on? Any advice and suggestions will be GREATLY appreciated. Thankyou.

Answer 1

Speaking for the old men's assoc. and not having much info to go off of. My first thought is you must be cute as a button " old man talk for a hottie"
My second thought is why don't you have a boyfriend?
My third thought is nope can't tell ya that. lol just kidding
You should be flattered, there are allot of ppl leaving questions like why don't anyone want to date me.
You must seem very mature for your age thus your attracting the older men, but don't go out and act stupid either, then you'll have the opposite problem

And lastly My 1st love was 7 yrs. 1 mo. 10 days older than me

My ex wife was younger than me

And the last love I'll ever have is 6 yrs. and 16 days older than me.

So you never know what life will hand you so enjoy it all, it's all gone to soon

Hope this helps

Answer 2

I was introduced into the dating world last year after a 11 year relationship, fattys, drunks,potheads, old ladies, and little young girls, when you reach our age 25-35 usually the reason people are single is because they are messed up somehow looks,weight,emotional problems, alcoholism, something is typically wrong, unless they have been screwed over some how, and usually they are snapped up real quick because they are a diamond in the ruff, so keep your head up and your aarp card handy

Answer 3

ZABU,you are very fortunate some women do not even get noticed.Please,take it as a compliment and enjoy your fame.This is only a suggestion,try changeing your appearance and your demenor somewhat and see if prehaps you may attract a different group of suitors.True you are not sending any signals,but perhaps your natural beauty may be.

Answer 4

Dress up a little bit and don't go for your all natural hous wife look all the time. Might be the simple person look you say you have. Don't be afraid to ask the guys you like.

Answer 5

You're a single mother NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT but it turns young guys off...young guy don't want that extra responsibility... they know your child will always come 1st and not him....older guys late 30's 40's aren't turned off by a child...Try dating or look for single dads....you'll have alot more in common and you'll understand one another...Good Luck

Answer 6

Hey Zabo,
Are you available tonight? I am an older man.
To answer your question;
I believe you must be pretty, well dressed, nice body, and very approachable.
These are all the right ingredients that make you irresistable to the older bolder man.
The younger guys just don't get.
We get it but are to old to have it.

Answer 7

well theyre probly just some old guys who OD'd on viagra, and they're just lookin for a good time. jk ummm the only thing that i can think of is that your pheromones (odorless, tastless emmisions of hormones, usually in relation to sexuality) are for some reason being picked up by only the mid life crisis crowd. ???????

Answer 8

if it keeps going on call the cops.