i went out with this boy "M" and she goes out with this boy "Z". we were both in LOVE with them..but they were treating us badly..coz long distance relationship and stuff. soo, i decided to go out with this boy "A" and and she liked him (but didnt tell me). me and "A" broke up..then he asked me back out and i said no. But later on he asked my friend back out..and my friend asked me if it was okay for them to go out. i said yeah..coz i wanted her to be happy. but now their together..and i still like him. i told her that i still like "a" but now its just akward for us to talk. like she cant talk to me like how she use to. what do i do to get my BEStiE back?
2007-03-02 09:05:47 · 17 answers · asked by [: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 23 years old and this has happened to me before- first tell your best friend that your totally over him - if that dosent work get a new bf and try to move along- if this dosent work try talking to her and sit down and have a chat hope this works if you need more advise contact me at emmy5217@aol.com- thanks bye
2007-03-02 09:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do something to 'thieve' the guy out of your superb buddy? If the guy became involved in you and you surely did not do something to inspire the interest, then it fairly is not your fault he likes you. even however, in case you comprehend that your buddy is involved interior the guy and if the guy is involved interior the girl and you tried to wedge your self in, then you definately could try respecting what they have. As for that threat - advise rumor you assert? (how do you qualify a advise rumor?) - will a actual buddy even try this? Whoever the guy prefers, if his interest on the girl is of his own volition, then the different could appreciate that. If the two one in all you are able to not even comprehend that your buddy's potential BF is off-limits, then you definately shouldn't additionally be acquaintances with one yet another.
2016-10-17 03:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man of your own, or tell her your interested in someone else - so you can go back to a comfortable conversation about boys and life. If there's someone else you are slightly interested in, I would go for that, just to avoid the awkwardness with your friend. You need to move on from "A" it's not fair to him or your friend. I would have kept that info to myself to begin with, but you can't change the past.
2007-03-02 09:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously shes not your 'Bestie' if she knows that you liked him and still proceeded to date him...thats wrong! Isnt there like a rule book or something? But, she shouldnt have done that to you. I say that you dont talk to her and let her call you. If she doesnt for a while..you know she will when they break up for sure! Who else will she call to cry to? So its up to you wether you still talk to her or not. Good luck!
2007-03-02 09:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ummm lol drama please girl u have t o be what 12 maybe younger maybe A LITTLE older. and u think your in love with this boy ur wasting your time on this earth with all this stupid drama enjoy life for a while with out a boy DO YOU NEED A BOY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY?
2007-03-02 09:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't of told her it was ok and that u still liked him..If she was a true friend she wouldn't of started liking him and went out with him...Apparently she doesn't care if your happy!!!!
2007-03-02 09:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by confused69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never gonna happen. if she was your "bestie" she would have never went out with him in the first place. its the rules of bff and dating the ex.
2007-03-02 09:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by richrd_pena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not until she gets rid of "A".
Or just sit down and have a heart to heart with her and tell her how much you miss her.
2007-03-02 09:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's gotta grow up and take u back
sisters (girlfriends) are thicker than puppy love
your friends will always be there--a boy will not
2007-03-02 09:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids stuff . I no you think it's a big deal but if that is all you have to worry about you will have a good life.
2007-03-02 09:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋