so they aren't really thinking abt my feelings right now just themselves....wat should i do...here's the whole story my mom lied abt being pregnant for 6 months and now my stepdad is talkin abt divorcing her idk wat to do cause my friend just died in a hit and run and i have no support from them....
2007-03-02 09:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by paige_boman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know that your world seems 'blacker than black' right now ... and the 'best thing' I can think of is for you to go see your 'school counselor' and tell her/him about 'how bad life looks right now' ... EVERY DETAIL. Your counselor may decide to 'give you counseling in school' or may call your 'parents' to recommend you go talk to a 'psychologist' or 'psychiatrist' privately. If your parents are 'called' and don't 'do something good for you' then you'll need to go back to the school counselor and tell her/him that 'nothing is being done.' You NEED HELP but because you are 'only a child' it may be a bit more difficult for you to get the 'help you need' to get through this 'bad time in your life.'
YOU ARE NOT GOING INSANE ... you just 'need help' to deal with all of the 'grief' and 'sadness' ... and YOU MUST SPEAK UP until you get the help you need.
2007-03-02 09:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to talk to as soon as you can. Maybe it is a counselor or teacher at your school, or another adult you trust. I'm sorry that you can't count on your parents to support you right now, but you can support yourself and should. It's not good to hold in all the emotions you're feeling. If you can talk everything out, you'll feel much better.
2007-03-02 17:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your poor dear. It sucks that your parents are too wrapped up in their own problems to be able to support you in your time of grief. But have you asked them outright to help you? Sometimes people aren't as perceptive as we'd like them to be - so ASK them to support you.
If not, then there are other things you can do. Do you have other friends that you can turn to? How about at school - you can go to a counselor or the school can point you to a support group that you may benefit from. How about church - you may not go to church, but there are people there that will be more than willing to help you properly grieve and listen to you. In your local community there are available counselors or even telephone hotlines that you could benefit from.
My condolences to you and remember, you will heal with time....
2007-03-02 17:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by lanibear55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for support from your friends or possibly a counselor at school. Your parents sound like they need to see a marriage counselor as well, not sure why your mom would lie about being pregnant but that does not bode well.
Good luck and God bless.
2007-03-02 17:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just know that whatever your parents do just know that they still love you. I was in the same problem but only differences there is I didn't have no friend who died. But my parents did get divorced. And now my mom married to a nice guy.
2007-03-02 17:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. When you feel as if you have no one to turn to, there is always someone willing to listen: God. I don't know what your religious status is, but I know from experience that he hears and answers our prayers. Just recently one of my friends tried to commit suicide and I felt really guilty. Everyone was telling me that I shouldn't feel that way, but it's easier to say something than to do something. I felt really lost and confused. But after I prayed about it, I felt so much better. I realized that He knew what I was going through, because He also knew the pains of losing someone. So my advice to you is to pray about it. You may not think so, but God really does hear us. Even if you're still skeptical, you have nothing to lose by trying, right?
2007-03-02 17:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by lilmagic_free2rhyme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats alot to deal with for sure!! And you shouldnt have to on ur own..Try to find someone that is a good person with a clear mind and cares for u and what is going on and ask for some support u definalty need it right now..Good luck
2007-03-02 17:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angela H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
right now i think that only thing you can do is get support from your friends, and try to get past this, you are a strong person to be dealing with all of this. you couls confront your parents about this but thats a step you'd have to be willing to take
good luck
2007-03-02 17:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parents and let them know how you feel. Tell them you need them and they are acting as if they do not care.
Pray and ask God to be your strength.
2007-03-02 17:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only seems like they dont care they do be tuff
2007-03-02 17:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋