started dating this guy about a month and a half ago.Everythings been great until wed,i went to my gf's house to watch a movie,when I was leaving i called him and he told me to call him when I got home to make sure i got home safe(it was snowing)but I ended up falling asleep as soon as i hit the bed.he called me about an hour laterand he was Sh** faced drunk with his buddies.he had asked me on wed if i wanted to hang out on thurs and we had plans to watch a movie.when I asked him wed just to make sure we were still hanging out,he said maybe and I got kinda angry with him.He ended up hanging up on me,so i called back,he hung up again so i called back until he picked up(i know thats bad)he picked up and said that he couldnt do this and when i said does that mean we're broken up he said i guess so and hung up.I am so hurt and confused by this!What should i do?he wont pick up my calls!I really want to talk to him about this, but how.he hasnt even told anyone that we broke up.im20hes24
2007-03-02 09:00:54 · 19 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to read all that.
2007-03-02 09:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Haji 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He seems pretty upset at the moment... Give it a few days and I'm sure he'll calm down. Don't call him for a few days. I think your man just needs some time alone. I think it'll be okay if you just leave it alone and let him figure it out a little bit for himself.
Brionna
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2007-03-02 09:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a frat boy looser. Any boy that is 24 and still hangs up on people, and not answers calls to confront the issue like a middle schooler..is a looser. You can do better, and don't even think twice about it..find a good replacement boy...
2007-03-02 09:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's had too many drinks honey....wait til he's sober & calmed down a bit, then just talk it over....it could be that when you didn't call him his mates were winding him up....don't pay any heed to what he says right now, he'll probably wake in the morning full of regrets...
2007-03-02 09:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I'm not trying to be smart but the best thing for you to do is not call him at all. It'll just make him miss you more if he really cares about you. If he doesnt then it isnt worth it anyway.
good Luck,
Vickie
2007-03-02 09:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by vickie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably give him a few days and think about your relationship with him. If you think it can work then go to see him in person after a few days to let him cool off. If you don't think it can work then go get a few pints of ice cream and a few sappy movies and invite over a few of your best friends!
2007-03-02 09:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by lovebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a power trip for him, he has you begging him and he loves it.
I suggest you stop calling him and let him come crawling back to you, if he doesn't he isn't worth your time anyway as he is emotionally abusing you.
Stop calling him and stand up for yourself, show him you will not be his emotional punching bag, and get on with your life.
2007-03-02 09:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Rational Thought 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u just give it some time he'll probably realize what he did. and stop calling him even if u want to talk to him really bad, he'll feel like he has power. which is not very good.pretend like everything is all ok, even if it hurts to do that, and eventually he'll miss
you and come back to you.
2007-03-02 09:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a New Romance
2007-03-02 09:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are anoying the **** out of him leave him alone for a few days (weeks) and than try to call him
2007-03-02 09:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poor guy thinks you are wacko. I think he is right.There are two names for your problems. P M S. and mad cow disease. same thing.
2007-03-02 09:06:00 · answer #11 · answered by zanzabarr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋