I was an ugly duckling, never been the prom queen or ms. Popular... I want that now in my life. I can't seem to grasp it in my attempts. I want close girl friends.
2007-03-02 09:00:12 · 9 answers · asked by Mami_Cita427 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well if you figure it out, could you go back in time and let me know when I was in high school or younger, lol?
All I have to say is choose your friends wisely when your younger because if you don't, you will be an adult with NO friends!
I do have my wonderful husband, but it has taken 10 years for me to find a "girl friend", and she is my father in law's new wife.
If you think making friends with girls is hard when your younger, just wait till your in your 20's! Girls are just to dang mean!
2007-03-02 09:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on being comfortable enough with yourself that you arent trying too hard to make friends. When your not looking for relationships is when you seem to come across the people with whom you will have the most meaningful ones. Becoming friends with people just for the sake of having a friend can often lead to let downs and hurt feelings. Good Luck
2007-03-10 16:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by smarty_pants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen First,
I have known girls who have looked really not good looking but have had some really friends and even very hand boy friends. You know why? when people starting liking for who you are you start to become really beautiful.
You are not a movie star, movie stars have to look good because we will never know them at all and we can only assosiate them with their looks. Looks like you are a sweet person and be open to your friends. Carry yourself well it is not how you look but how you carry yourself. Dress well go out and carry yourself well. Be positive and confident around people. Keep a smile on your face you will see a world of people wanting to be friends with you.
Take care sweet girl
2007-03-02 17:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Xtrax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take me with you out of mine! I could have written the same thing. I think maybe people like you and I grow up expecting certain things in relationships and acting the same way in realtionships, and so guess what? They keep ending up the same! No idea how to bond with people. And I've tried that "get interested in something" and it will happen. I ended up in something interesting - alone. I'm thinking about buying a few friends. lol Guess we'll just have to keep trying girlfriend! At least know that you're not alone on this one!
2007-03-08 18:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Bug 277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to join social groups and activities, stop trying so hard, that is probably putting people off a little. Do you play sport? great way to meet people. Church groups are good too, nowadays it is not just oldies that attend, lots of young people too. Good luck
2007-03-10 15:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by judles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever considered approaching people that are more quiet, and more layed back? maybe you're trying to interact with the people that are extremely extroverted, and most of them, [more times than not], tend to be full of themselves, cocky, impatient. instead of focusing on being the most popular, focus on finding your inner-circle of friends. they're sure to bring you happiness. i've learned that usually, the so called "popular" people aren't as happy as we'd like to think they are.
2007-03-09 10:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sue G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go about it the same way you would've when you were younger. Get involved in things your interested in and you can start to bond with people who enjoy the same hobbies as you.
2007-03-02 17:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,girlfriends aren't what they're cracked up 2 b.Yur better off w/out'm
2007-03-07 18:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joyful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant change your past but just so you know popularity isn't everything just be yourself and everything will fall into its place.
2007-03-10 13:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋