Theres this guy I know, and we are together every weekend at least twice at my friends house. We flirt a lot and always end up kissing and things. He always tells me how much he likes me, and that he cant stop thinking about me. The problem is, is that whenever I leave he always ends up doing things with other girls that are there. The first time it was my bestfriend, who he had sex with. The second time it was another girl I associated myself with. Whenever I confront him about it he acts liek its all okay and that he regrets doing it. I forgive him everytime, and I just keep making myself look stupid in the end. He told me that if I were to ever do anything with another guy, i'd be "cut" so to speak. But look at what hes doing to me. I asked him what we are doing and he says that we are seeing each other, isnt the definition of seeing each other allow BOTH people to see other people. Thats what I thought, I just dont know what to do anymore, I like him so bad. What should I do/say?
2007-03-02 08:57:26 · 20 answers · asked by chelolziez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry but you are definately being played. You are going to end up with a broken heart here because he isn't going to change. please take my advice and tell him to beat feet nobody deserves to be played. Respect yourself and don't allow him to show you this disrespect.
2007-03-02 09:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey if i were you i would tell him to kiss your *** and find someone else to play like a fool. You are absolutely right he dosnt know the meaning, that and he sounds very controlling and guys like that you wanna stay FAR away from trust me on that one. he might be cute, but there are a lot more guys that are good looking as well. Dont just settle
2007-03-02 09:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by bailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to get over him cuz if he truly liked u he wouldnt be doing other stuff with other girls he would only stay with u. U need to leave him and find someone else. It is not fair he can go do stuff with other girls but if u go see someone else u will be "cut" as u said that isnt fair and why would u wanna be with him if he is having sex with other girls?
2007-03-02 09:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You THINK you are being played? You ARE being played. How can you like someone that would get on your best friend right after you?? And nice BEST friend. If she was your friend, she never would have had sex with him. Sweetheart, you need to realize that you deserve someone who will treat you much better. He plays you and then controls you by saying you can't be with anyone eventhough he can. Please ditch this loser and find someone else.
2007-03-02 09:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him: WTF do you think you are doing. It's not ok for you to have sex with other females and say that you want me too. If that is to be the case then we should have an OPEN RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!! DON'T BE STUPID HE SLEEP WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND at least that what she claimed to be but best friends don't do each other like that. Why are there people who are known as your enemy? Drop this jerk and get with someone who loves you.
2007-03-02 09:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no hes a dirtybag n he maybe disease n r u blind stop playin stupid a man that f....;s ur bf or other females nah he aint ready 4u let alone b with u n yea r u r gettin played rite in ur face best thing he did 2u was the fact the played like he wish he have not done it n ur bf knows u like him how nasty is she
2007-03-02 09:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to leave him!!!! how can b with a guy that slept with ur bestfriend!!! sweetheart u r being played wake up all the signs are there. go find someone else who is going to treat u better
2007-03-02 09:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you fell, but trust me you have to let this one go. What he's doing to you is wrong. And form what i can see he's threating you! You should tell someone about that (police would be smart) because he could be really dangerous. He's no go and dosen't deserve you. Just let him go.
2007-03-02 09:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have all the answers, you just don't want to take a stance. Why would you allow someone to treat you this way. He knows you'll accept it so he'll keep on doing it. You like him but you don't like you.
2007-03-02 09:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by suggary 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should let him do what he does and move on. yes, you are getting played and you know it. i don't mean to be or sound harsh, but you pretty much answered your own question. he has slept with your best friend and someone else you know but yet he said you would be cut if you sleep with someone else. he is runnin game on you. let that trick go and move on to something better.
2007-03-02 09:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by MISTER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋