how to i forget about this guy i used to like? i dont like him anymore but i see him everyy day. and i know he doesnt like me anymore either but hes just so nice and sweet sometimes. and my old feelings keep coming back. its so annoying. how do i forget about him??
thanks
2007-03-02 08:55:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It must be hard having to see him over and over again. Do you have to see him though? Do you work with or go to school with him? Or rather do you have mutual friends? The only way you can truely get over him is to distance yourself as much as possible (without being bitchy about it). If your at work or school, find different routes to get from here to there. Or, find a hobby that you didnt share with him and invest time into that.
2007-03-02 09:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by acweyman0906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no answer that will give you instant relief. Only time can heal this wound. Also, you need to be honest with yourself. If you still like this guy, then just admit it. After you admit it to yourself, then you can finally begin to move on. Seeing him everyday also makes things difficult. But the only thing you can do is be polite. If you think it would work, try to become friends. Don't let the end of one relationship destroy the opportunity of having another one. If you don't think that a friendship could work, then, like I said before, just be nice. When you see him, speak, then move on. Try to find a hobby, or something that you enjoy, that you can spend your time on. Also, spending time with friends and family can make things a lot easier.
2007-03-02 17:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by lilmagic_free2rhyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him, OR if you truly have feelings for him again and your at a point in your life that you can act on those feelings (meaning , youre single) then you should talk to him about how you feel, that's the only way you'll get it off your chest - hearring how he feels will help you.
2007-03-02 16:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem. I really can't pinpoint what I did to forget him, but I wish you al lthe luck. And don't listen to those feelings, they will only get you in trouble. For now, just kind of look at him as an enemy.
2007-03-02 16:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one because i am in the same boat as you, all i can say is this, have a talk with him tell him you know u have to work around him, nothing has to be said, just work, and if feelings do come up, put them out of your head and say i am over him,and move on.
2007-03-02 17:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by birddog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that heals is time and sometimes distance, sorry i probably told you what you didnt want to hear, but its the truth and as you grow older you will realize this, but sadly enough you cant ever seem to build up an immunity to these things it just sorta finds us all in one way or another, you arent alone
2007-03-02 17:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,tell someone and get it of your chest go talk to more boys and make friends and keep havin fun sooner than you know it the more time your having fun and living everyday life the less time you have to think about him
2007-03-02 16:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by ce~ce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just liked him and not loved him then it should be easy to get over him. You should find you another boyfriend to keep your mind occupied or just try to hang out with friends as much as possible.
2007-03-02 16:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by Julie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never forget him completely. Just move on so someone else starts fills up most of your thoughts.
2007-03-02 16:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget. Embrace the memories. You obviosly still like him.
2007-03-02 16:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by Youngboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋