Theres this girl that I really like and I want to kiss her, but im not sure if I should...We've been friends for a while. Shes a really great girl, and id hate to lose her even as just a friend because I kissed her. Im a good lookin guy, very charming, and I think she likes me, but should I kiss her? Or what?
If you think I should.....how should I do it?
2007-03-02 08:53:10 · 24 answers · asked by Matt M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
18 if you must know.
2007-03-02 09:04:46 · update #1
tell her wassup you wanna be my lady or wut?
2007-03-02 08:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by west side rider 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're really close to her, and you have the chance to be alone in a romantic setting. I would suggest (at a time that you sense she is comfortable) sweetly pecking her on the lips. If you don't feel comfortable with that, try the cheek. If she feels the same way about you she will respond in her own manner, alerting you of the way she feels.
If you haven't grown to the "kissing level" yet, I suggest that you just express the way you feel to her. Be yourself, don't try to be "over wordy, or over explanatory", and just let her know that you really like her and wouldn't mind pursuing something more "serious"...or however you choose to word it. Whatever the case may be, just remember to be yourself, and if she's really a "great girl" then no matter if she feels the same way or not, she will express her feelings without hurting your feelings (intentionally) or being a b**** about it.
2007-03-02 09:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like an amazing guy .. the girl is lucky to have someone so considerate like you. YOU SHOULD KISS HER! chances are she is dying for you to kiss her. so dont wait too long.. it mite just be the kiss that starts a long lasting relationship. dont be scared just make sure you kiss her at the right moment. wen ur alone a talking or something. good luck!
2007-03-02 08:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you think you're falling for her. If she gets concerned you can say, "just kidding" and go back to being friends. Otherwise, if she seems pleased by it then move in for a kiss. Good luck.
2007-03-02 08:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short for these kind of things..... kiss her. If she likes it, she'll kiss you back. If she doesn't then no big deal. Tell her you couldn't help yourself and even if she feels odd she'll feel flattered. I love kissing, there's this great feeling about it.. and if she's your friend and she's unattached, then I don't see what the problme would be!
Good luck!!
2007-03-02 09:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you kiss her make sure she at least thinks of you in somewhat of that way. After that do it when there's not al ot of people around and just do it, it makes everything a lot eaiser.
2007-03-02 08:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. Take her to a romantic dinner then take her to a dance kiss her while you're dancind to a slow song, or if 1 dosent come up try to request it.
2007-03-02 08:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Lyanna Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. Then, at the end of the date, give her a hug. If she's good with that, and gives you a good squeeze back, maybe, JUST MAYBE, you could go for it.
It's a gamble, but it could pay dividends....
Good luck.
2007-03-02 09:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by Surfer Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD UP!!!! first of all you said that you dont know if she likes you.........dont you think you should find that out first before you KISS HER???????..........you gotta ask the girl before you go off kissing her thinking its ok because your a (mocking) :::good lookin guy::::you know better than that.......now ask her then ask her if its ok to kiss her........peace out ***
2007-03-02 09:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of a way for her to do you a favor and in you gratitude give her a small kiss. See how she reacts and take it from there.
2007-03-02 09:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her would she ever kiss a close friend and if she says yes make a short move act like there's something on her cheek but if she says no forget about it
2007-03-02 09:00:47 · answer #11 · answered by kitty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋