soul mates? Destiny? Or one of many people with whom you could be compatible that you then choose for life?
2007-03-02 08:50:57 · 20 answers · asked by G's Random Thoughts 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Love is a choice... there is a book by that title... it's an interesting read.
2007-03-02 08:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little of both.
Choice comes in when you've chosen and worked hard to be content with yourself. To value yourself. When you get to that point, you can choose not to be with people who drag you down.
Chance - without doing any actual research, I'm willing to bet that most people fall in love with people they have met quite by chance; not those they've been set up with in one way or another.
Soulmates - they exist, or at least there are people out there with whom you are completely in tune. But you can have more than 1 and they don't have to be love interests.
Destiny - bah.
Yes, see Soulmates for my thoughts on this.
2007-03-02 17:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many people with whom you can be compatible some more than others. Most people just grab the first one that comes along and seldom is it the best choice but they are stuck with it.
2007-03-02 16:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking whether or not their is someone out there especially for you and no one else...I doubt it. Many people would be compatible with you I'm sure and being in love would depend on whether or not the chemistry goes along with it. When I say chemistry, I don't mean sex. I am referring to a sense that you have about that person. It is that sense that will make him or her special.
2007-03-02 16:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love simply is. Whether we find the people we would connect with and discover love is both choice and chance.
I do believe there is more than one person out there with whom we could (and will) each be very happy.
2007-03-02 16:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Godly love is a choice. The emotional love that everyone confuses as genuine love comes and goes.
2007-03-02 16:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a chemical reaction bro. Learn some science.
2007-03-02 16:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by dino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooo ... Chance / opportunity.
You can't choose whom you love, you can only pray that they will love you back.
Same with God, he loves us and can only ask that we'll love him back. So too, he can only ask that we love each other as He (Jesus) loves us.
2007-03-02 16:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chance. You do not choose who you love.
2007-03-02 16:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a choice for those that have no problems getting it and a chance for those that do have problems getting it.
2007-03-02 16:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by OpenAndy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋