I'm 20 years old, have been on one date (she came onto me, so I aked her out), and it didn't go well. The girl went from having the hots for me and calling me every day, to not calling at all in 3 weeks. Problem is, I'm VERY shy and unless I really know a person, am very uncomfortable talking to people. I don't think practice will help here because I've been this way for my whole life. When I see a pretty girl or something, I think to myself, "Given the choice, why would a girl be with me? I"m boring to be around, I don't know how to make a girl feel special, I don't have friends.." My only redeeming quality is that I can be funny (but not unless I know a person well, which is hard to do for me) and I've been told (by the girl i went out with) I was good looking (that's why she came onto me).
What are your thought?
How do I convince myself otherwise?
2007-03-02 08:49:25 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know what your problem is and i can fix it and make all of your problems better. Here's the key: Stop feeling sorry for yourself you fricken pansy!!!
2007-03-02 09:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by warrenG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have more confidance in yourself! Dont ask yourself "why would anyone want to be with me?" & start asking yourself " why wouldnt anyone want to be with me ! " Im funny , Im a good listener ,Im good looking ect . write all the good thigns down about yourself on a piece of paper & you will see you arent soo bad after all
2007-03-02 20:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋