My girlfiends ex has just moved to my school and i dont know what to do. I think she still has feelings for him and he keeps flirting with her what shall i do???? plz help
2007-03-02 08:46:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ask her then if she says no and they flirt wit eachother she's not worth it or u could beat him up see her reaction and decide if u should dump her or not
2007-03-02 08:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Wild Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing! Show your girlfriend (and him) you can be cool by not letting him wind you up. Be careful though that she's not just testing you a little bit by seeing if you get jealous. Sometimes girls like to see if a guy really likes them by making them jealous, and if you don't react at all she may think you don't care enough!
Perhaps you could mention you don't like the way he flirts with her and that'll be enough for her to see you have noticed and you do mind, but you're not going to make a fuss and make yourself look daft.
2007-03-02 16:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by finch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember that this is your girlfriend's ex boyfriend, not her present one - you are that! He is probably trying to stir you up by flirting with her, does she respond to this. Why not just tell the lady outright that although it may seem a bit daft to her this is worrying you. Then take it from there.
2007-03-02 16:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by highheelsshortskirts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Tell your girlfriend, you know her ex is flirting with her, and you don't like it, she should ask him to quit, or you will change partners and find somebody else, and if he comes on a bit strong, that's ok sort it out amicably, don't resort to violence, it will solve nothing, ............Tony M
2007-03-02 19:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by tony m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hold your head up and be the bigger man. It will be uncomfortable with him there... but don't let him see it bothers you. She's with YOU, not him. Feel good about that! Long as she doesn't flirt back, ignore it. Be a strong man... not a weinie.
2007-03-02 16:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is not a lot you can do - just trust her - if you get all possessive and jealous you will just push her towards him - talk to her and ask her what she feels about him moving back!
2007-03-02 16:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirt with her a lot too. and if she really likes you, she won't still have strong feelings for him.
2007-03-02 16:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by CourtCourt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if, when he flirts with her, she responds, then i would dump her. if she dosent then she is for you and you have won the war
2007-03-06 15:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that she still has feelings for him then leave to see what happens!!!
2007-03-02 16:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋