Well this is the situation: I study at the university & I like a teacher, a lot of things had happened between 2 of us; & he has made some stranges things like spy on me from his office, take me pics, but i don't understand nothing.
At first we had a normal relation teacher-student then i try to get another things from him, he answered strange cuz he appeared be interested for moments and then nothing. one time we were working in a project & suddenly he said" teh things tahat we are doing are wrong" i think he was talking about the project but not.
recently y said to him that i like him then he get nervous & didn't want talk to me, when we talk about it he said " nothing happened, the things are normal" this is clear but i don't understand why he used to spy on me, talk about me with his friends, get angry when i talk to another boy or teacher, make hints about us & about his private life???? I like him too much so i want to know what do about it? talk with him or forgot him??
2007-03-02 08:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like your teacher is kinda mixed up or a nerd, it really is not healthy to have a relationship with your teacher.he can get into trouble if he makes a move on you, even loose his job. give your teacher space and find someone who can return your feelings.
2007-03-07 00:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sound of it, he feels the same way that you do, but student/teacher relationships are so frowned upon, and he could be in big trouble for abusing his position of power/trust. Ultimately, it could lead to his dismissal and make it very difficult (if not impossible) to get a tnother teaching job in the future. Try to find someone around your own age
2007-03-02 16:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by theberksbouncer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he spys on you and takes your picture mmmmm doesnt sound like the actions of a man you should be with sounds a bit creepy to me (the way it comes across on screen) it may be innocent .he is your teacher albeit you are at university and a adult i personally still find it a bit unethical, he has a duty of care to you which does not involve getting into your pants, if you really think it could go any where see about changing tutors that way nothing can be said about his possible favourtism towards you
2007-03-09 05:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by kaye j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know in your heart, mind and what your instincts are telling you...move on. You are i like with the thought of liing him..women always want what they cant have..that goes for most people..You can like someone, love someone but that does not mean you have to "be" with them.
Learn this and find other people to talk to, be friends with and just move away and on from this bad situation..actions speak louder than words...this guys actions would tell me RUN!
2007-03-10 12:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The present university study investigated the effect on witness confidence and accuracy of confusing questions often used by attorneys in court. Participants viewed a videotaped film and were individually questioned about the incident 1 week later. Half the participants were asked questions using six categories of confusing questions (negatives, double negatives, leading, multiple questions, complex syntax, and complex vocabulary); the remaining half were asked for the same information using simply phrased equivalents. Confusing questions reduced participant-witnesses' accuracy and suppressed confidence-accuracy relationships compared with the condition where simplified alternatives were asked. Witness performance was impaired by the fact that mock-witnesses rarely asked for a confusing question to be explained or qualified their answers. This experiment demonstrates the importance of ensuring that lawyers ask witnesses simple, clear, questions.
2007-03-02 16:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by star ray 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk! Talking can't make things much worse can it? You at least need to resolve the situation, for your own sake.
2007-03-02 16:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this will never work - forget about him and report him. He shouldn't be acting like that towards a student.
2007-03-02 18:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like the wind!!! He is far too old for you you need to be with someone your own age, not an oldie.
2007-03-08 11:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by misshoneybun28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmmm... Is this professor 13 years old? Are you sure you're in college?
2007-03-02 16:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by FunnyValentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and get a guy of ur own u kan do better good luck
2007-03-02 16:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋