this guy has been my neighbor for over eight years. He knows me and trust him and its the same for me. We've never been more than friends buy he always had small crushes on me when we were in grade school. But, this year is different i see him differently. I like him and his spontaneous personality. I remeber i told him i liked him in grade school and he was shocked and started acting different towards me. He started flirting with me and sitting with me on the bus and trying to get close to me. But then he got a girlfrend. And he would talk about her in front of me trying to boast about it or something. Someone told me that his gf doesnt like him at all and he was just bragging. So i still talk to him and flirt with him and he does with me but a little less. He seems embarrassed at times and nervous. Does he like me? i dont know if i should wait for him to come ask me out.. cuz i am not the asking him type girl. is he worth the wait?
2007-03-02 08:40:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he is worth the wait, it seems like he knows that you are worth the wait as well...it sounds like you two are in high school now, so give it sometime because it doesn't sound like him and his girlfriend will last long...just keep doing what you are doing and keep close friends with him while he is still with her
2007-03-02 08:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by strgazer9113 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is...you had the chance and never acted on it. Then, when he got the gf, he talked about her to see if you got jealous. If you did, then he knows that you still like him. If you didnt, or hid it well, then he thinks you probably just moved on. The only thing that you can really do at this point, is be direct. Tell him how you feel and see what happens. Dont live life scared of the risks. If you want something, try for it. If it does not work out, you can never look back and say you didnt try. Good luck.
2007-03-02 16:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Suburban99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably brings up the GF to see how you react. Contrary popular belief, jealousy would NOT be the best reaction.
With guys, especially anyone under 20, you need to be OBVIOUS. don't think a passive flirtation will be accepted, you need to be clear and concise without being overtly aggressive.
Whatever you do, don't wait terribly long. He may be playing games with you.
2007-03-02 16:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is worth the wait because it seems like yall know eachother very well and thats a bug part in a relationship so yall would work out perfectly but wait for him and his gf to break up and then start flirting again and tell him you like him and maybe he wil ask you out but you know you cant wait forever so yea but let him know how you feel so he can at least have a chance to ask you out
2007-03-02 16:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something that I did:
It was a sunny day and my neighbor was talking about his gf. He had a crush on me in grade schooltoo. so i new that he was trying to make me jealous.Me:can we stop talking about her?Him: Why?Me:Because.Him:Ok. Still why?After a long pause I Yelled: Because.I...I I IloveYou! Then before He could say anything I kissed him and ran away. Then the next day he came to my house and he told me he was tryin to make me jealous.Da! Then our relationship went to the next level, like bf and gf.So dont be afraid to speak your mind.
2007-03-02 16:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Lyanna Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start making more obivous moves flirting doesn't help sometimes or maybe he's wants u that y he talks about his gf. wait till the summer if he doesnt do a thing then u have to ask him out
2007-03-02 16:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Wild Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, this guy sounds like he needs to grow a spine.
He's obviously trying to puff himself up a little and for reasons I can't understand, he's afraid to make the next move.
I think the best thing to do would be to simply ask him, "why do you like to tell me about your girlfriend?"
That could be a good conversation starter to get him to talk about what he likes about you. And you can respond by telling him what you like about him.
Good luck!
2007-03-02 16:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice I would advise you to ask him before its too late? you never know he could find the love of his life tomorrow and you would go steight down the drane.Follow your heart and your first instinct not any one else? Try this go up to him and tell him that your not "the ask boy type" so could he ask you out!Realy it doesn't matter what any of us say you have to do what is best for you!
2007-03-02 16:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You're still young and that's a normal part of life some guys just can't make the first move.
2007-03-02 16:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by DataBASE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and its worth the wait. Be happy now get em
2007-03-02 16:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋