2007-03-02 08:38:58 · 38 answers · asked by Hector B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait, Your first time will be much more gratifying and memorable if you save it for someone you really love and care about.
2007-03-02 08:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex is over rated! Watch some porn to Learn good technique and Wait until you find someone special. How will you know if she is Special? Trust me and Most everyone else who has answered this question You will know. Once you have found her and your both ready, She will be really impressed that you have waited just for her and When you rock her world with good sex technique from your studies she will be doubly impressed.
The next part is where it gets difficult. You have to dump her after no more than 6 months. Go to the good clubs in town pick up about 2 to 3 different girls a month having sex with them and then not talking to them again. The whole time keeping a journal and always committing on how none of the girls that you have been with have ever even come close to your first love. Also post the journal to a blog and make sure that a friend of your first love finds your blog. Do that for a year or two. At this point you will need to casually run into your first love and let her know that you would like to hang out again. After about a week of hanging out and casually dating she will be in love with you and be yours forever. Be sure to stop the blog with one last entry about how you are back with the girl of your dreams and you know that your playboy life style is over.
NEVER mention the Blog or how many girls you had sex with during your two year separation! And if she ever brings it up Just say "oh you saw that... how embarrassing...well I never stopped thinking about you"
Good luck!
2007-03-03 02:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by DeJay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No !! of course not ! people would kill to get their virginity back. Believe me the longer you stay a virgin the more you become a hot commodity. Because anyone can just pull their pants down but a really strong man can hold out until the right time. Believe me girls will want to know who you are, but will not understand why you are not like other guys. you have something that they cant offer. You are honorable. every guy wants sex from a girl, but if you come off differently you will get a respect that alot of men will never get. Besides you can always masterbate!
2007-03-02 08:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex when it is appropriate. Don't got to a party and get wasted and have sex with the first girl you see. Because you may never see her again or worst you'll have to pay child support for the next 18 years. So if the girl for you is out there and you guys love each other and she will be ther tomorrw and the next day(this also includes you) then go a head but wait for the perfect person.
2007-03-02 08:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right girl man. It makes the fun of having sex even better for u and ur partner
2007-03-02 08:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by ggiro861 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT.....sex is a very important thing and you don't want to have it with just anyone......
I only dated my husband and he's my one and only....he however had sex before he meet me. one with his ex-fiancee which bothered me but I knew he loved her and that it was genuine or whatever.....but then he had sex with a girl that he dated for less than a month and that really bothered me because he had sex just cause he wanted a piece......AND i didn't find out about that girl untill after we started dating, then that they had sex until our 6 month dating annaversary....it gave me a dirty feeling.
also i know that both of the girls had sex prior to my husband so it makes me feel like i've had sex with 50+ people as oppossed to one...kinda nasty! and after i found out about the last girl i went and got an STD check!
2007-03-02 08:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by jcss_003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before you decide, let me tell you this, which you probably already know. There are alot of diseases floatin around in this world, and if you can, you should really try and wait till ur with that special someone. I think when you did find the right person, she/he would be thankful that they were ur first.
2007-03-02 08:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for it to be at least semi-special. Don't do it just to get it over with, have sex with someone you care about the first time. It makes it more meaningful and memorable.
2007-03-02 08:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the love of God wait!
Why would you want to waste that on someone you don't love?
It is going to be SO much better if you wait for the right person...and you will know when you have met them.
This is something you will remember for the rest of your life....you don't want to regret it.
2007-03-02 08:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No when you have sex it should be with someone that you really care about. You will know when its the right time to have sex you will be able to feel it in your heart.
2007-03-02 08:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, having sex with someone you care about for the first time does not make if more meaningful or memorable. Find a hot slut to knock it out with, that will be plenty memorable, trust me. Just make sure you use a condom every time.
2007-03-02 08:43:35 · answer #11 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋