or do you just lie back & go with the flow
2007-03-02 08:32:20 · 25 answers · asked by miss smidgey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is more fun letting him know
2007-03-02 08:53:13 · update #1
would that annoy you guys
2007-03-02 08:56:08 · update #2
You definately tell you';re partner what you want!! You may aswell get the most pleasure possible while you are having a sexual relationship with someone.
I'd tell my partner exactly what i wanted, other wise they are not fulfilling every need i have.
I'd rather know what my partner wanted so i could give them full pleasure...
2007-03-02 08:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by curlywurlygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going with the flow is fine and all and never fails, but when you ask for what you want.... WOW what a difference, I tell my husband what I want all the time, even now after being together for 4 years and I probably always will.... there are times to just go with the flow and enjoy the moment, but you can't always be into it and that's a healthy way to help put you in the mood, encourage your partner to do the same. Just don't over do it. and remember... Have Fun With It. GOOD LUCK! One more thing... try to talk about it cassually while just hanging out, this way when the time comes, no one has to talk and you can enjoy the moment together.
2007-03-02 08:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication is a must in a relationship. More than likely if you don't tell your partner what you want you will probably look for it from someone else. Be honest
2007-03-02 08:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We talk about it when we're not in the middle of it so no-one feels like their doing something wrong. But we are both able to let each other know what we want.
2007-03-02 08:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he has a crystal ball or is a clairvoyant he may not know so if he hasn't found it yet don't be afraid to tell him. I hope it is more than my ex wanted though she just wanted her shoulders massaged and then fell asleep. I suppose that is why she is my ex!
2007-03-02 09:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you must tell him what you want and he should tell you what he wants..
its fun exploring each others body's it makes intercourse fun.. help him find the spots that arouse you show him how and guide him and your relationship will be filled with the most satisfying times.. it's healthy and fun
good luck
2007-03-02 08:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by fat8oy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definatley what you want or youll never be truely happy and that could cause problems
2007-03-02 08:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ree O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, a cup of tea, right now!!! He has just leapt up and put the kettle on..............its only taken me 39 years to train him!
2007-03-02 08:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tell him - how will he know in the future if I'm not willing to tell him?
2007-03-02 08:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your scared to say something like "It would be BETTER if you tried this"
any real man would love suggestions like that cuz different is always good
2007-03-02 08:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋