I recently ended a relationship...so far i havent been able to cry... i need to get my emotions out... does anyone know a song or movie to help me cry? This is a wierd question I know... but i need something to get me going... i miss him already, his strong arms around me, his big soft lips, and his random calls just to talk to me, and his texts just to say "sweet dreams" babe... please help....
2007-03-02 08:31:51 · 38 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he had another girl on the side...
i miss him
2007-03-02 08:36:56 · update #1
don't force it. it'll happen naturally. and don't worry, you'll get over it. and laugh about it later.
2007-03-02 08:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by eriq p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the movie the Notebook makes me cry, and if you both had a song that you liked that may help also. After I broke up with my boyfriend there was a song by Alicia Keys her very first album - song in A minor - I can't remember the name off the top of my head but it was near the end of the CD and it started out - How do you love someone who hurts you oh so bad... I think it's called Good-bye but I'm not sure.
2007-03-02 08:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is all those good things then why have you two broken up? Anyway, maybe you havent cried because you really arent hurt. dont muster up false feelings to justify your break up. sometimes just being sad is enough. you dont need all the dramatics of tears. I didn t cry when I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years because he was a jerk and the relationship was rightfully ended. Just move on with your life. It sounds like you are lonely and need something to do. Go out and do something, it is a beautiful day outside enjoy it.
2007-03-02 08:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Chris,
Must was not that good you ended it. Now you miss him. Ask him if he will take you back. Maybe you do not need to cry, you will have enough things to cry over in life anyway. And not crying makes me stronger when i can go on with live without shedding a tear. If you must cry--cry with an agenda. Do something about it.
2007-03-02 08:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you cry? You must know this guy wasn't no good from the start so something keeping you from doing it, it aint no need to shed no tears when you had someone that wasn't doing right in an relationship all you need to do is just relaxed and know you done got rid of your major problem my dear. Enjoy being single.
2007-03-02 08:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart dont let your pride kill your relationship, its apparent that you dont want to end things with him, you are trying to convince yourself that its the right thing to do, which in fact it sounds as if your pride has taken the wheel and has run you over, you shouldnt listento your friends, for they dont really know what has happened in your relationships, only what you have disclosed, which probably was your pride once again speeding out of control, i know because i have let my pride dominate me and finally put it into the back seat and now use common sense even if my girl doesnt, suck it up and call him and kick that pride right out of your heart and keep it out otherwise between and your so called friends you will wind up miserable and alone
2007-03-02 08:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! This is what did it for me. On the Buck Cherry cd entitled "15" there's a song called "Sorry". listen to that song. I promise you it'll work.It worked for me! I had the same problem as you and I thought there was something wrong with me, because I really, really had loved the guy I left. Good luck!!!!!!!!! And I truly hope you find happiness soon!!!!!!
2007-03-02 08:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cry if you haven't yet.It's not like you have 2.Crying will only make you think I want him back boohoo.Forget it move on.Don't make the same mistakes again.He cheated on you he deserves no tears nothing ,Be glade you didn't mar===him or caught some kind of kritters or worse???Just my thought. Keep smiling. Have fun
2007-03-02 08:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a weird question.
I have a movie that makes me cry every time. Legends of the Fall. Sad, sad, sad. Get a BOX of tissue.
2007-03-02 08:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by ladygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry I can't help you because i have an emotional problem. When I was 10 I would cry because my parents wouldnt let me go to a friends house. I am so sorry.
2007-03-02 08:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by Queen Lyanna Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a good one is a movie called Here on earth or something like that it has Josh Hartnett, Chris Klien and LeeLee Sobieski in it. when you do cry warm shower so your eyes don't swell
2007-03-02 08:35:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋