I'm so confused about my doctor. I really like him, he's a really nice guy. He's delivered two of my babies and did a great job. He's a family doctor that also delivers babies. Anyway, he is always getting our names mixed up. He calls me by my oldest daughter's name, and my oldest daughter by my middle daughter's name. I am always correcting him. He's even recorded stuff under the wrong person's name in the computer. Every other doctor I've gone to says he's the best doctor and so smart, etc etc. Also he doesn't work Thursdays and only half days on Fridays, and it's hard to get in on Monday, so when we get sick between Wednesday and Monday we are screwed. Twice this year we've had to see a different doctor since we couldn't get in. Anytime I see him he really acts sincere about caring about us. And I always chicken out, whenever I decide to switch doctors I can't follow through. So...is it normal for doctors to forget your name and to have so many days off?
2007-03-02 08:31:10 · 6 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He is not old...he's probably in his late 40's or early 50's. And he's not confusing our family with other patients...it's just with each other...me and my 3 girls. Today my daughter saw his partner since she couldn't get in to see him, then we ran into him in the hall...He was really concerned that we were in there, and wanted to make sure everything was okay. I feel he is being genuine...but still maybe I should switch doctors?
2007-03-02 08:55:10 · update #1
So you think you are the only patients he has? Give the guy a break. It rare to find a doctor who actually cares in this day and age. Stick with him.
2007-03-02 08:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say no your doctor shouldn't forget your name especially if he delivered two of your babies. That is just plain rude. And even though he may act sincere, he isn't. Any doctor that can't remember your name and is always confusing you with others. Then i would definitely sit down and talk to him about you having to see other doctors b/c he has many days off... which is really unusual for a doctor, and to tell him about the name confusion. I mean how hard is it to look at the chart prior to going into your room to talk to you??!!! Its not that hard and you shouldn't let him get away with it. If he continues to do this then switch to someone who knows your name and won't confuse. I know I am seen by a military doctor.. who sees many patients a day.. and when i see him in the hallway he knows my name and stops to talk to me about my baby and he remembers everything. And trust me when i say military doctors are overworked, tired, and see way to many patients. So a doc that can't remember you doesn't deserve you. Goodluck
2007-03-02 16:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While it is annoying to have to see another doctor because yours is off so much, it is dangerous to see a doctor who confuses patients....it makes me wonder what else is getting confused ie drug dosages etc. Is he older? Perhaps something is going on that you are not aware of? No other doctor you ask will bad mouth another doctor! Ask instead which doctor they take their family to...
If it makes you worry, it is probably best to find another doctor. Why do you 'chicken out'? You will not be the first or the last to leave his practice, and I can assure you he will not take it personally. They are your children and it is your health and you need someone you can trust. If that is not your current doctor, it doesn't matter how nice, sincere or caring he is, he is not the right doctor for you.
Good Luck.
2007-03-02 16:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Midwife Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said how old your Dr is - is he getting close to retirement? If he is, then that may be part of the confusion. Otherwise, he just might be very, very busy or even suffering from Alzheimers.
Don't be a chicken about switching doctors either. If it's not right for you, it's not right for you. With children especially you need to have someone available or risk the higher co-pay w/your insurance for going to the ER or Urgent Care.
2007-03-02 16:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by GJF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My doctor would not recognize me if she saw me in the street, let alone remember my name. But when I go to see her, she always checks the chart and calls me by my correct name. If he is entering information into your records under the wrong name, it is a problem. I would guess that he is getting older and a little forgetful.
As far as having to see someone else when the kids are sick, that is quite normal, doctors can't be available all the time. As long as there is someone in his practice that you can see, it is considered okay.
2007-03-02 16:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by growing inside 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
switching names around i dont think is such a big deal...there are people who are just plain BAD with names....the answer lies in his performance....if hes a good Dr., its OK to stay with him...maybe a little annoying with the name thing...but nothing more
2007-03-02 23:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by motherhendoulas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋