i realy like a girl wich i have nown for 8months i do any thing for her but the problem is that i think she dosnt like me the sameway i like her but one of her mates told me that she stuck up for me when she heard one of my old mate wich i dont hang out with anymore slagen me of shall i ask her out or what help?
2007-03-02 08:26:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Australia ➔ Other - Australia
is she Australian? i can't think of any other reason for your question to be under the General - Australia and New Zealand category.
2007-03-09 19:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by ~ B_e_K_z ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she stuck up for you then she obviously likes you and even if it's not in the same way as you like her she's unlikely to hold anything against you. In my experience if guys have asked me out and I haven't said yes it isn't always because I don't like them but just because I prefer them as friends or I'm not ready for a new relationship. Basically what I'm saying is it's probably best to try asking her because the worst she can say is no and the likelihood is you'll still be friends afterwards.
As for how to ask her out you could just tell her how you fell about her and ask her what she thinks and whether she feels the same or wants to take it further. You know her a lot better than I do so I'm sure you'll know the best way!
Good luck : )
2007-03-02 08:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this girl has an opinion of you that may not be to your liking.
How do you dress and are you a friend instead of a possible boyfriend?
How do you talk to her? Are you respectful and treat her right.
Maybe she doesn't see you as a boyfriend but as a friend only.
Remember boyfriends come and go, but friends last much longer.
Ask her out, but if she says 'no' keep your cool, thank her and try again later.
Look at how you present you (self) to the world and ask yourself would I want to date this person?????????
If you dont like what you see in the mirror why would she like it?
Change is necessary in us all, so ADAPT, IMPROVISE AND OVERCOME soldier!!!
Good luck man.
'Faint heart never won fair lady'!.
Think about this last line and succeed
CONFIDENCE is the biggest aphrodisiac known to women.
Alcohol is the killer.
2007-03-02 11:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by dtedad-50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea just ask her. Make it an easy one 1st like lets meet for coffee at the Starbucks down the street or similar setting then let things take there course.
2007-03-02 08:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see her on her own. Then ask her. Not in front of other people. If you can only talk to her when she is with other people it will be just a little bit more difficult. You could try asking if you can talk to her for a minute. If she says no, then just say o.k. but thanks anyway. Then wait till you can ask her on her own. It is then up to you how often you want to do this HTH LOL
2007-03-02 08:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her when she is on her own and say "would you like to go out with me" if she says no move on you have not lost any thing and if you dont you may regret it
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-02 09:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by katie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel you never know she could feel the same way, be confident and if you do i hope it works out
2007-03-02 08:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you never tell her how you feel how will she ever know
maybe she thinks you dont like her
of course she may say no but you will have lost nothing
2007-03-02 08:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by sabrina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a go what have you got to lose.
2007-03-02 08:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you'll never know if you don't ask.
2007-03-02 09:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋