My ex and i split up a month ago, we where together for 4 years. She has the nerve to call me and tell me she already slept with a few other people, fine whatever it hurt but it doesn't matter i'll get over it. She then decides it's a good idea to call me and tell me that she want to sleep with a guy whom is my good friend and Lays down vocal tracks from the songs i write. Also this is with her thinking that it won't cause any problems and that it shouldn't bother me in the least. How do you react to a situation like this. I know if bob was a good friend he wouldn't sleep with her, i just want to know your opinions on the subject matter.
2007-03-02 08:24:16 · 24 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just forget about her -Tell her you don't care and to quit calling you-you have better things to do than to talk to her nasty a s s. Go out and find someone else. And about your friend Bob if he is a good friend he would blow her off and make her feel bad the way she treated you! You deserve better!
P.s : How's the turtle shell treating you?
2007-03-02 08:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number...forget about her..ignore her..Do anything you can to keep busy and do not let her destroy your own happiness because that is what she is trying to do. She is trying to either get back at you or hurt you for whatever reason..In reality she is only hurting herself. She might get an STD and a bad reputation. No guy wants to sleep with a slut. So, she's making her own bed and will have to eventually lie in it. Dumb. Petty..basically immature behavior. Just be happy and if Bob was your friend he would probably not give the girl the time of day! Gross..I would not touch her.....Let him know what she is up to..she's probably only doing that to get a reaction out of you. Who knows? You guys were together for 4 years....it's complicated but both parties have to move on maturely.
2007-03-02 16:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are better off without her. Sounds like she is doing this through her own insecurities and acting very childish to get you to react. She is seeking a reaction from you as a sign you may still love her. Keep ignoring it and she will get bored and hopefully act normal again. If this is genuinely what she does, that is horrible and she will soon end up pregnant or with an STD or something. Just dont stoop to her level dude and put yourself first.
P.s. If Bob does anything, he was never your friend in the first place. That is way below the line.
P.p.s. Bet she is lying too and slept with no one but her imagination!
2007-03-02 16:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like she's going out of her way to hurt you or make you jealous. I also think if bob was a good friend of yours, he wouldn't sleep with her either because that's just....wrong. But I guess you will find out how good of a friend he really is. Since you guys split up only a month ago...could it possibly be that shes lashing out cause she's deeply hurt by the breakup?? It seems to me she's being a bit immature too by calling you to tell her she slept with others....if I was in your shoes, that would prove to me that the breakup was a good thing after all.....
2007-03-02 16:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop taking her calls. If she leaves a voice mail, erase it before you even listen to it. She is doing this to be hurtful and spiteful.
If you want, tell Bob that she has informed you that she is more than willing to sleep with him. Please also tell him to be sure and use protection as she has been getting around in the last month in an attempt to make you jealous.
If these don't sound workable for you, keep her voice mails and play them to all of your friends so they will know what a psycho tramp she is. Good luck.
2007-03-02 16:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you stated, if Bob is a good friend then he will not sleep with the ho. Change your number so she will not call you with this mess. She knows that it is bothering you that she is doing this. Find you someone worth being your one and only. Let your friends know that she has slept with other people because I am sure they would want to know that she's a ho. You can't turn a ho into a housewife.
2007-03-02 16:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a b i t c h. she probably in some sick way wants you back and thinks this will work. its like the girls i went to school with that thought if they told there bf they where pregnant they would not brake up with them. see its the same mentality. its a good thing you got rid of her. dont answer the phone if you know its her. stay away and if she gets in your business again. tell her i gave you the best action you ever had and ill will back you up. i know it hurts and thats the sad part. but all you need is time. they say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. come on down.
2007-03-02 16:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i feel really bad for you if she really did that y in the hell would she just call you and tell you?
shes either trying to make you jelous and trying to get you back or shes a slut but sorry theres no other posibility
i think you should talk to your friend "bob"lol and teel him not to sleep with her cause shes a bad thing from what it seems shes going around haveing S*X with all these guys she doesnt deserve you if shes like that okay
2007-03-02 16:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like an insecure whore who is using her vagina to a) make herself feel empowered, and b) make you feel bad. She needs either a good slap in the face or a life-long STD to shut her up. In the meantime, you could block her calls. Or, if you still care about her in some way, you could diffuse her insistence on telling you about her sex life by saying, "Hey, that's nice, how about that last episode of American Idol? Heh heh heh." Don't give her the power of hurting/annoying you with her incessant need for attention. Good luck.
2007-03-02 16:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by pokecheckme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she isn't really over you.....for her to tell you of her 'new conquests' is almost like she is hoping it will bring out the green eyed monster in you and you will take her back......it's a tough one because no doubt you still care for her - 4 years with someone is a long time! I would almost say she is 'filling the void' without you by sleeping with these guys - as for your good friend - let's hope he is man enough and sticks by you and behaves himself....good luck to you!
2007-03-02 16:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by babyblues_752001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋