my bf and i have been going out for about 3 weeks but their are some minor issues like we never get to see each other ever and its really hard cause im kinda flirtatious and i heard he was too and i dont want to be cheated on. but then hes so sweet and i kno i really love him but i cant have a relationship over the phone and aim. so what should i do??
2007-03-02 08:22:05 · 18 answers · asked by Kim D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also ive known him for 5 yrs
2007-03-02 09:35:10 · update #1
do what you do best,.. i am a flirt too, and it causes problems but i am what i am....no one wants to be cheated on but you have no control over what someone else does.... its ok to look at themenu as long as u dont order...
2007-03-02 08:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by micmyerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'd say move on. You've only been dating this guy 3 weeks, and u think u love him, what has he done to you! lol. Relationships never usually work out anyhow if you never see eachother, and why would u want to have one over the phone? In your best interest, it would probably be wise for you to follow your heart and you mind, do what feels right! Good luck!
2007-03-02 16:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just some common sense. 3 weeks and you love this guy? You're already doubting his flirting and your flirting as well. You don't need to do anything except wait until you grow up. You're not feeling love...you're starving for affection and attention...Give him and yourself a break. Go to the zoo and you can find all the attention you need. Animals have unconditional love regardless of how messed up you are. Come back to the dating scene and work with humans when you get older.
2007-03-02 16:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by daviidtlake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is get out of that relationship. All your having is a relationship on the phone. Plus if you like to flirt and if you heard that he is 2 then you both don't need to be taken. Personally I think you should stay single and have fun until your ready to have a actual relationship.
2007-03-02 16:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to have a relationship with someone you hardly see. If you cannot trust him, chances are it wont work out, unless you can get closer to each other and see each other more, I would probably cut it and be friends before it turns into something bad!
2007-03-02 16:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Korbyn's Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start seeing other people.
because you said that you guys are both flirtatious so if you don't cheat he's going to cheat. Besides its only been three weeks, so don't get into it deeper where both of ya'll might be hurt.
2007-03-02 16:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun u dont love him..bcuz if u did u wouldnt flirt, or wouldnt mind having a long dist. relationship. but if u c that u might cheat or him cheating on u..just stop it rite now b4 N1 gets hurt.
2007-03-02 16:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you should let it go...if it has only been 3 weeks and you're already stressed imagine if this relationship goes on.
2007-03-02 16:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask yourself how much you really like him. If you do, then you should try and make the relationship work. If not, you should probably break up.
2007-03-02 16:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God for guidance and follow your heart. You know how you feel and it its too much to bear, get out...
Good luck!
2007-03-02 16:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋