Today in third period I over heard my best friend talking to a guy about my crush. I heard them say something about him smoking. Then I say "Was he really smoking?" and then she said "Ya, his mom cought him." And just to make sure right before lunch my friend asked him and he said "Shhhhh!" Really angry-like. And I felt my heart acually be crushed by a huge bolder! And I really have felings for this guy. Like I might acually love him...
School Girl: So what can I tell my friend to do about this. And she can NOT do nothing.
2007-03-02 08:21:35 · 11 answers · asked by Tleek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how old you are, but just cos he smoke doesn't make him a bad person just a bit of smoke on his breath which isn't nice. There is more boys out there for you. Talk to him about it and try and make him see sense that it is not big to amoke it is bad for him, and just don't start smoking yourself to try and impress him that is the wrong way to go bout it.
2007-03-04 09:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by saucey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don know how old your are but I wouldn't worry about it. Just Cause He Smoked doesn't mean he is a bad person. True he did make a bad choose. If he did not do anything else to you I wouldn't worry about it. Try to make friends with him by starting with simple compliments (Example: I Like Your Shirt) Then Just Walk away. Then try to make a simple conversation with him. Slowly become his friend and start flirting a little. Soon He should ask you out. About the smoking if he becomes your friend just make sure he does not do it anymore. Good Luck.
Well oops I thought this was you telling the story well tell your friend exactly what I told you:). Good Luck
2007-03-02 16:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by maytag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, as much as you don't want to believe this - YOU DO NOT LOVE THIS GUY. What you are feeling is very common and it is called "having a crush". Secondly, if this guy is smoking, you do NOT need to get yourself mixed up with that. Smoking is a NASTY habit and can lead to other bad behaviors! This is NOT ALWAYS the case, but why even take a chance. I have never dated a smoker and never plan too. I don't want my clothes and house smelling like that. And, at your age (you sound young), this is most likely unacceptable to your parents.
Now, you most likely already know this, but like him to much to want to leave him alone. But, I am telling you - this guy sounds like he is going to end up getting himself into a lot of trouble. If he sneaks around and smokes, what else is he going to end up doing??? And, if you are dating him, you are going to end up getting yourself into trouble. You have so many years ahead of you and they should be filled with happy times, not punishment and sadness. This is where you will end up if you keep walking down this path.
You sound like your stressed out about this - which is a HUGE sign to leave the guy alone!!!! Anything you do in life should make you feel OK. If you're stressed out or worried, it isn't what you should be doing.
2007-03-04 17:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAG UR IT!! This is so scary. Send this to 15 people in the next 143 mins. When you are done press F6 and your crushes name will appear on the screen in big letters. This is scary cuz it works!! if you break the chain you will have problems with relationships for the next 5 years JUST COPY AND PASTE! no tag backs!
find another guy
2007-03-10 12:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by *hola* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really likes him it shouldnt b a problem that he smokes (i dont smoke) but its like sayin oh he supports a diff footie team i cant go out with him c it like that and u will realise how minor it is. all the best
2007-03-04 17:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoking is just disgusting. find another guy. he has bad habits and u don't want to get yourself hurt over those bad habits. find another guy for u and your health. good luck
2007-03-04 17:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nobody likes to kiss an ashtray.
2007-03-04 17:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going out with a guy who smoked. it was fine. dont worry about it.plus,he was probably just trying it out
2007-03-04 17:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoking is nasty especially if you want to kiss, its just like licking ashtrays . find another guy
2007-03-02 16:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by gooplic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious ?? who cares if he smokes me and my boyfriend smoke .. what are you like 12 ... are you really judging a person based on if he smokes or not ... tell her to get the **** over it
2007-03-04 17:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋