Do men like porn more than they like thier own women?

Answer 1

Porn, and significant women have some very obvious differences, and the answer will not be the same for every man. Some men believe that porn is wrong, and will have nothing to do with it. Some men don't care for women at all. Why?

With porn, you don't have to worry about "the mood," how she'll feel after wards, or whether you were too rough. It's also kind of nice to see them just get it on in some of the most freaky, perverted ways without much warm-up. It is totally undemanding, and visually stimulating.

However, porn does not provide any physical intimacy. It doesn't love you, it doesn't kiss, or cuddle, or even really have sex. It can't cook, or sew, or clean house, or help with the bills... Indeed, for some, porn interfers with the bills, and can even get in the way of doing your own chores, and going to work. In short, porn is unksilled, selfish, and sometimes addicting.

Many guys fantasize about being able to stick it to their girls the way it's done in porn, but few really would. I mean really, who wants to share your woman with five other guys at a time? Not me! Who wants a girl that's gotten stuffed so many times that she... umm... doesn't close up right anymore?

Women can be demanding, selfish, and addicting, just like porn, but as real human beings that we get to interract with, this is not usually the case. Most women are demanding, encouraging, sharing, and loving. Real human intimacy is a rare and precious gift, which is most often found in meaningful sexual relationships.

When a man no longer puts his woman before his porn, something is wrong. The most common problem is a loss of intimacy. Sometimes a loss of physical attraction leads to this situation as well. As most porn features physically attractive individuals, there is some logic to this, but most men know that beauty does not last forever, and lust must give way to true love.