hay ive just been dumped today after telling my bf that im pregnant with his baby! he accused me of sleeping arround @ 14 (cos thats how old i am) after he put pressure on me about havving sex with him(hes 19) ! i mean how selfish is that! and also i pland this according to him to try and trick him into givving me money for some reasion! and yes the babys his i mean like i said its his baby cos i was a virgin before i met him! so i really need help! what would you do in my situation! im so scard!!!!!!!! would you dump your gf over somthing like this?????? please help me!!!
2007-03-02 07:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also we like went out since i was about 11!
i no him through a cousin and my cousin robz is conna hate me for this but still kick the S*IT out of my babys dad!
and i still love him so much!
2007-03-02 08:24:35 · update #1
also i dont really want to get him into trouble! also i just asked one of ma mates and hes just apparentally been arrested for doing drugs in a club! i mean i new he did poppers and smoked a bit of weed when stressed but nout serious!
2007-03-02 08:29:05 · update #2
I know you are probably confused and scared. You need to talk to your parents and let them know you are pregnant. This guy was 19 and old enough to know better. He needs to go to jail before he does this to someone else. You are only 14 and he took advantage of that. Please, talk to your parents, they will lead you in the right direction. Good Luck!
2007-03-02 08:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stupid, Stupid child! Go to your parents. Tell them what happened. You should have thought about being scared, before you decided to put that 19 year old between your legs. Stay away from Boys and SEX. You are a child. Where is your Mother!????
After reading some of the replies, I just have to say, too many are dumping all the blame on the guy. Yeah, he's older and SHOULD know better. But let's face it, he could have some mental issues.
2007-03-02 08:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by janice 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had sex at 14 with a guy who was 18. Thank GOD I didn't get pregnant. I look back now and realize I had NO CLUE as to what I was doing or what the consequences could be! Tell your parents immediately and I truly believe the guy should be arrested for sex with a minor. What an idiot! Don't talk to him again and talk to your parents!!!!!
2007-03-02 08:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG 14!! girl what have you done..
You need to report that loser ASAP.. he is 19 and in no way should have made you or let you have sex at your age. Its illegal. Secondly talk to your parents NOW!!.. they need to know and whatever you decide to do with your life they will be there i am sure.
If you decide to keep the baby.. get a parenity test to prove to that loser that he is the father and then hit him for child support.
What ever you decide to do.. good luck
2007-03-02 08:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what he did was statutory rape, even if you consented to it. Tell your parents or the police so he can be charged accordingly. Second. contact social services and set up for child support so that the minute the baby is born he has to pay you monthly for supporting the baby. What he did was wrong, both pressuring you into sex and leaving you because of the baby, he needs to pay for it. If you havn't told your parents already, you have to do so right away and make sure they know he is 19 and pressured you into sex.
2007-03-02 08:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
14??? oh no......he will go to jail. And if you had any plans for the next 18 years, they are gone. Why don't parents and teachers emphasize consequences. This is killing me. I'm sorry, you are going to miss out on a lot. I wish you the best of luck
2007-03-02 08:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell your parents right away.
2. Call the cops and have his rear thrown in jail, he molested a child (namely you).
3. Get an abortion and stick to school and books instead of spreading your legs to every tom, dick(no pun intended) and harry.
2007-03-02 08:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He might be your baby's daddy, but you need to tell your parents if they don't know. If you don't tell them they're goin to find out some time. When you tell your parents tehy can help you. I don't think they're goin' to ignore you and throw you out. If they do that then ain't good parents. If you don't do that then you go to someone who is really close to you in your life to see if they can help you. Then you need to find your baby's daddy to tell him that he is goin' to help you with the baby. If he don't turn him in. I'm not cold hearted I just tell the truth.
2007-03-02 09:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you was my girl,, i yell at you, then i go looking for the boy, an god help him if i found him,, but now to try to help you you need to tell you mom an dad, i say tell mom first,, then i have charge put on him, for you beibing only 14, his *** goind down,,,no, you learn a leason, but it to late, but some good can come from this,,, by this boy, doing this ,their other boys out their, doing other girl the same way,, now you may be able to make a different in this world, an in any case he going to pay you for the child,,
2007-03-02 09:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur 14 and he is 19!!!!! wtf.....not much u can do u tell someone and he can get into trouble for HAVEING SEX WITH A MINOR!!!! u have got to tell ur mom or dad but if u like him dont say it was him
2007-03-02 08:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by wrestler27 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋