date tips, when, where, what, and how?

Question

i have a b/f, and he really likes me, but if ne1 in my family found out we were together they would just die. they say i can do better. we wanna spend time alone, but i dont kno how, where, or when. we talk on the phone occasionally but i call him jack when i do. i told my mom my b/fs name was jack so he goes along with it.we pass note during class, and talk during class, but after class this other guy that really likes me waits for me at the door and he kinda takes over. so my b/f and i never get alone time. my mom doesnt trust me 1.) she starting to think i dont actually have a b/f and 2.) she wont let me go anywhere with my friends by my self. shes always there with, i went to a party the other day at the ice rink, that was the first time i went somewhere where my parents werent thee along with. did i mention that im 13 and never been newhere with my b/f with a group or by our selves, its pathetic! he tells me he truelly absolutly loves me cuz im everything hes not, think its true?

Answer 1

Girl....you are only 13...you have a long way to go to experience the dating stuff....Your parent love you and they want the best for you. My best advice to you is keep it slow.....meaning you are not in any kind of rush to be starting a serious relationship...It is nice to have a boyfriend....but keep it on a low profile, holding hands at school or watching a movie together, and don't think so serious about it. Concentrate on your school and goals!