I have been going otu with my boyfriend for over a year butant me to meet his friends... when ever they are goign to go over to his house he takes me home before they get there.. or if he goes otu with them he tells me about it but neevr invites me to go with him... i invite him to hang otu wtih me all teh time but he never wants to...is he ashamed of me???? ive met only 3 of his friends and only because i was at his house when the yshowed up....i love him and he says he loves me to. ive tried talkign to him about it but all he says is that he goes out wih just the guys, and that it would eb weird for me... then later he tells me stories of hwat happened and there always seems to be girls tehre 2... am i just over reacting or should i be upset?
2007-03-02 07:51:41 · 14 answers · asked by lovepixiek 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're being played!!
2007-03-02 07:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not overreacting. It's sounds to me like he is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I had this same thing happen. My boyfriend was smoking pot with his friends and made sure I was never around them for too long, for fear that I would find out. Your boyfriend could be doing the same thing but for different reasons. Maybe he is cheating on you, or at the very least flirting with other girls. I would tell him how you feel and if he doesn't understand, he probably won't change his habits. Good luck!
2007-03-02 15:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you should do is decide how important this is to you. If it constantly bothers you, you need to address this issue right away. Talk to him again and be sure to bring up the fact that you remember him telling you of other girls that were there when he was hangin with the guys.
There are other things to consider..
How long have u been with him? Has he introduced you to his family?
Take a breath and make sure u don't overreact.
Good Luck
2007-03-02 16:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you want to go and enjoy whatever he's enjoyin'...don't push it. You might finally go over and not even like it. Plus thats "his time" let his friends be his friends, and yours yours. I'm sure you'll always get a long with his friends and vice versa, but people are grimey, and maybe he just doesn't trust one of his friends around you, and would hate to beat his friend up lol. But if you love him, that means you trust him, so don't confuse yourself just because there are girls there. Thats asking for trouble
2007-03-02 15:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bossdz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have met some of his friends by now ... he should be proud of you and want to 'show you off'. And the fact that he tells you about going places where other girls are is not good. Sounds as though he's not being faithful to you. Watch out.
2007-03-02 15:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make yourself too busy for him. You are not overreacting, he is using you for when he has nothing better to do. He prefers going out with his friends, and other girls, to spending time with you and is making it painfully obvious. If you are having a sexual relationship with him, that is probably the only reason why he stays. Move on. You don't need him. He is too immature to have the kind of relationship that you apparently desire.
2007-03-02 16:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you sweet innocent child. hes banging chicks left and right behind your back. Hes also getting hammered and partying. Having you around is just to much of a drag. He keeps you in his life to add stability and to fill the gaps in between affairs. He propably makes fun of you around his friends and tells them how bad he plays you and how naive you are to it. I did the same thing with my ex long ago. Wise up to the bullcrap
2007-03-02 15:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you let this go on for a year is beyond me... he should be proud to have you around and get to know his friends, and his friends should be trustworthy enough for you to be around them... the whole situation is less than what you deserve. It sounds shady... very uncool. you've made the effort to talk to him, you did your part, he hasnt done his.... sounds like it might be time to move on... omission of the truth is still a lie
2007-03-02 15:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just "NOT That INTO YOU"!
I would look for a new boyfriend who wants me to meet his friends and wants to hang out with me.
2007-03-02 16:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Emerald 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably embarrassed about his friends or they may be really immature.
2007-03-02 15:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf is the same U SHOULD BE FREAKING OUT GIRL!!!!!! just tell him "ether i come along or i'm gone" and just go from there ok? good luck girl ;)
2007-03-02 15:57:27 · answer #11 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋