no mix matching
2007-03-02 07:51:17 · 33 answers · asked by steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would rather be alone and happy because you can do bad all by yourself
2007-03-02 07:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question lol. They both are not that great though. I would choose being with someone and being unhappy. But what if I make that person unhappy? Then I rather be unhappy by myself. But if I was with someone I would just try to pretend I am happy!!
2007-03-02 07:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are we talking about a marriage? if so...think back to why u married in the first place...and what has changed? and how long have u been unhappy? can it just be a down time and will pass? is there something u can do together to make it better? does he know u are unhappy? what does he feel? once u answer all those questions u will be better able to decide what u need or want to do. if there is no way to save the relationship..then it has to end..no once can go thru life miserable..it makes everyone around u miserable..and if there are childern they suffer too..if we are talking about a date relationship..and u are unhappy..its time to move on but dont be rash..ask the same questions as above before u make a decision.
2007-03-02 07:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by candlelit_dreamz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already made that choice - Alone and Happy. Even Alone and unhappy is better than being with someone and unhappy.
2007-03-02 07:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to me. Don't ever be with someone just because you feel like you cant be alone. Obviously this person that is making you unhappy is satisfied with you being unhappy and that isn't worth it. Everyone deserves someone to love and care about them and believe me that person or people are out there. Don't settle for anything less that what you want. Don't feel like you cant find that person who cares about you the way you should because believe it or not you probably already know him/her. I felt like that for a long time and I was miserable honey. I had never felt so low in my life and its only gonna make you feel like less and less. Its hard to believe that a human could make you feel that low but there are some mean and selfish people in the world. No one is worth that. You live for you and your family not a girl/boyfriend. To be alone and happy is the best feeling in the world because you don't have to depend on anyone to make you happy because you make yourself happy and that's what is most important in life. Everything you do in life should be because you want it and because you deserve it. No one should make you happier than yourself. I cant say that I am completely in love with myself but baby I'm damn close to it.
2007-03-02 08:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone and happy. The "happy" is the important part, not the "with someone." If you're in a relationship, and there are more bad times than good, it is often time for it to end.
2007-03-02 07:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone and Happy
2007-03-02 07:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone and happy because being unhappy with someone creates resentment and tension.
2007-03-02 07:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone and happy, unless there was a reason i was unhappy that i could fix
2007-03-02 07:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy and alone...trust me.. I'm in the process of divorce, its hard being a single mom, but me and my kids are happy. I dont have to worry about arguing everyday and my kids being stressed from us arguing...I'd pick happiness over being un happy by a long shot!
2007-03-02 08:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by punky brewster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather be alone and be happy because life is too short for some BS!
2007-03-02 07:54:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋