My bf actually said this to me. I know he was being honest, but the thing is I never asked him. He just said it out of the blue. I was very offended by it. How would you all think?
2007-03-02 07:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by KaN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be offended.
Even if you weren't Miss America, the fact that he told you this tells me that he really doesn't care for you a lot. If he said it out of the blue, then he's looking to start a fight or just anger you. Say good-bye to this guy.
I've dated average looking women in my past, but I would never have said that to any of them. They were ALWAYS beautiful, and I told them that.
I'm happily married, and I think my wife is beautiful.
2007-03-05 07:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by haberstroh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being average is better than being too beautiful or sexy , there are alot of freaks out there and if your looking for approval from someone get it from yourself first. Be comfortable in your own skin. Unless you really want the attention from others, can you handle it? so I don't think he really ment to hurt you, Celebrities some are average and some are gorgeous depends on the person at hand inside or out appearance.
2007-03-02 08:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! Obviously noone has ever tought this idiotic moron any manners... LEAVE HIM, or he will continue to be verbally abusive towards you and you'll never be happy. Wherever this boy goes in life, he will always be verbally abusive toward any woman. Eventually he will end up with some woman that takes it and she has a very sad and lonely miserable existance because she feels as though she cant leave him. Its a tragic story.
2007-03-02 07:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him!!!! a guy who only thinks little or even average of you isn't worth it! a guy needs to want to please you, and work at it to get you.
2007-03-02 07:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋