Your boyfriend just broke up with you, you are sitting on a bench in the local park crying. Another guy who you know likes you spots you crying. He walks over to you puts his arm around you and tries to comfort you. What do you do/think?
Didn't do this just saw a girl doing this and thought about doing it.
I'm trying to comfor her.
2007-03-02 07:47:08 · 34 answers · asked by trev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Prince Charming to the rescue...
every girl feels like a failure after being dumped
but if you do this, she will feel better about herself.
And you would have comforted her.
2007-03-02 07:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by jm3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would have been a nice gesture but as long as you didn't take advantage of the situation then it would have been perfectly alright to comfort her. Who knows maybe a relationship could come about it but take things slow and be a friend first and for most. So keep it in your pants until you are both ready.
2007-03-02 07:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as your not trying to comfort her out of her pants, it should be fine. Shows that you care and I'm sure she'll be happy for it. By the way, make sure you make her laugh. Nothing gets a sad woman's attention than a guy who can make her forget about her sorrows for even an instant.
2007-03-02 07:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times when a girl just wants to be held. Especially if she is upset. As long as the arm was just round my shoulders I'd probably soak your shirt with my tears. But don't get too friendly, just round her shoulders would be fine.
2007-03-02 07:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On impulse i'd in all possibility slam the bathing room door real speedy if it replaced into close adequate, then grab my towel to dry off and canopy with. Then i'd pretend it did no longer take place afterwards.
2016-12-14 09:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by fette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you really like her or is this a sexually like you have for her? if its real be aware she might think you are trying to get her while she is most vulnerable. you have tell her you understand that is going to need time to heal from this current wound. listen to her when she needs someone to talk to. and be there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on . also don't try to be mister super hero just be her friend for now.
2007-03-02 07:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by mizzsmith2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that I would be throwing a party after a break-up, I would probably just give him a quick squeeze and go back to planning.
2007-03-02 10:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your hands to yourself, but do offer your sympathies! After you've talked for a while, you could take her hand in yours and see how she responds to that, but remember, she's not liking guys too well at the moment...so don't expect much!
2007-03-02 07:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me a couple of times and each time the guy hugging me tried to kiss me and I pushed him away.The hugging we like but why do you guys try to make something else out of it .Here our hearts just been broke and you try to kiss us .Get real
2007-03-02 07:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be soooo sweet i would love it personally and i know it would help but only if the girl knows you.it's nice to see or hear things from a guys point of view when you need it the mosr
2007-03-02 07:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋