Is it ok to flirt with my boyfriends friend right in front of him?

Question

Like I kind of starting to like my boyfriends friend and today we keeped on flirting and I don't know what to do, My friends say brake up with him, and one of my friends say I should listen to my heart, But I can't, Please help me!

Answer 1

Honestly, I think you're disrespecting your boyfriend by flirting with someone else while being in his presence. Just think how you would feel if your boyfriend was flirting with another female and try placing yourself in his shoes for once! Also, your friends need to stay out of it and allow you to deal with this issue yourself! Besides, use your brain! Good luck!

Answer 2

If your bf is cool with that then it's ok. If he doesn't want that type of relationship then it's not ok. It depends on what type of people u r. I would say that u should do what u believe is right for u. Make sure that u put alot of thought into it though. Is the relationship worth holding on to. Do u think that the bestfriend will treat as well as he does now once u are with him? (That's a really important one). After u have considered these things u should think about this: If this guy is your bf's best friend, then why would he try to flirt with u? Maybe he doesn't have the same type of priorties as most people in society and feels that it is ok to do this. That leads to the question of what will make him respect your relationship with him if u get with him? Wouldn't he be willing to talk to other girls just like he is willing to flirt with his best friends girl? I think that could get a little strange if u r not open to it. U probably wouldn't have a problem with it though because u r doing the same thing to your bf right now. Neither of u respects him so maybe u 2 would be a good match.

Answer 3

Innocent flirtation is very healthy but if you have feelings for the person you are flirting with, it is no longer innocent flirtation. There is no reason to remain with your boyfriend if you have feelings for another. Those feelings will intensify and boil over. If you remain with your boyfriend you will soon resent him and your relationship will slowly decay. It's better to catch it early and end it in better terms because if you continue on this road, it will end badly. With all due respect to your friend, DON'T listen to your heart because it's too volitile. Use your mind and think about what you would tell someone in your situation. Good Luck

Answer 4

It's not ok. Your boyfriend trust you with his friends and you stab him in the back. Would you prefer a boyfriend who doesn't want you to hang out with his friends? If you talk to his friends like a normal person then its fine. Don't flirt. People that flirt with their boyfriend's friend or girlfriend's friend are cheaters and bitches who nobody likes. You don't want people criticizing you about being pass around, calling you slut, etc. Good Luck. Help make the world better by being a good person.

Answer 5

It's not ok to flirt infront of your boyfriend. But then again, unless you wanna purposely ruin your relationship with your boyfriend then by all means go for it. It would really be mean towards your boyfriend if you did something like that in front of him. If you don't like him anymore, you should just say so. And is your bf friend really that good of a friend if he's telling you to break up with your bf? I mean, they're supposed to be friends right? Think about it, if he's like that with just his friends, what is he like around girls?

Answer 6

Just by flirting with his friend and that you are still dating him shows you what kind of child you are.

How would you feel if your boyfriend did this to you, flirted with your friend right in front of you? you probably wouldn't like it, would you. So there is your answer....

Answer 7

You are stepping into a minefield of trouble that's going to explode in your face soon if you don't turn away from it. Ask yourself how you'd feel if the circumstances were reversed or imagine if it were a situation with a husband and wife(not that you have this sort of obligation, but this sort of situation can be a precursor). Emotions are destroyed, loyalties dissolved, once strong relationships are broken beyond repair all because of one foolish self serving act. If you don't want to be with your "boyfriend" don't play with his emotions or that of his friend for that matter.

Answer 8

You don't really like your boyfriend....because if you did you would not have disrespected him like this.....I am sorry to sound blunt....but think about it. If I am wrong....then stop flirting and be with your boyfriend, because even if your boyfriend doesn't say anything..he is hurt and feels that you are disrespecting him.....and if I am right then follow what your heart and see if there is something going on with you and this person...

Answer 9

You should realize that what you are doing is going to hurt your boyfriend. And Kharma will eventually catch up to you and bite you in the @ss. I foresee you leaving your boyfriend for this friend, and in the near future a close friend of yours will start to date the guy you are breaking up with for his friend. You will get upset by this and be right back on yahoo answers asking how do I fix this? The guy that you are dating now.... the FRIEND will eventually cheat on you with someone who is close to you, one of your friends.... and again, you will be right back on YA asking the same questions... what did I do wrong??? Geeze kid... Sounds like a huge mess. I hope its worth it all.

Answer 10

You are not trustworthy. If you dump your man to be with this other guy, he will never let you be around other men because he knows how you are. Instead of getting yourself into a good relationship under bad pretenses, I say, let you current relationship run its course, and HE will probably call you and then it will be ok.

Don't be a 'ho, leave it alone. You never know, your b/f probably asked him to flirt with you, and report back what happened. Don't be stupid.