I keep changing my mind. When i am with him i like him a lot, he is so sweet and i know he likes me. I really want to feel more than just friendship for him but when he's not there and i think about it it doesn't seem right. We are actually really good friends. What do you think? thanks
2007-03-02 07:42:54 · 16 answers · asked by name. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I usually get a rock-hard erection. That's always a good indication that you're into someone.
2007-03-02 07:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you need a longer break away from him to see if you miss him. Usually a friend won't be missed in the same way as a person you really care for. Sometimes feelings can develop for somebody over time, there's no formula for it, it either happens or it doesn't. If it doesn't seem right to you, then you obviously have doubts about your feelings for him.
Ask yourself though, are you perhaps scared of taking the risk of starting something with him that could ruin the friendship you already have together? Lots of people get nervous when they become attracted to somebody they previously thought of as a good friend, because they fear losing that person as a friend if the relationship ends. Unfortunately that's something that can and does happen to a lot of people.
2007-03-02 16:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be thinking about him all the time, dreaming about him seducing you, the whole Mills and Boon scenario. If you fancied him you would not have to ask. Having said all that. there is more to a relationship than romance, if you don't think it is stringing him along, go with it for a while, if it comes to kissing etc and you just can't go there, then it's not right. If it does feel right, great, but if not, at least you have a friend.
2007-03-02 15:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by vista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop thinking about that person all day everyday, second, minute and hour 24 / 7 365 days a year your attracted to them cant get them out of your head - you fancy someone - you want them - you feel happy like you are on cloud nine - when it happens you will just know you get a feeling in your heart.
2007-03-05 16:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by julie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him out on a date?... Are you scared that this will never work between you two or are you more unsure? Maybe when you guys will go out on a real date things will get somehow a bit clearer. Take some risks! Gd luck
2007-03-02 22:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by нιкαяι 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes getting to know someone better before those feelings develop, so don't discount this guy just yet. Spend some time with him, let his personality be discovered over time and perhaps you'll find there is something there.
2007-03-02 15:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by McB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact same boat right now. I like this guy, but the idea of sleeping with him??? :-(
So, I gotta be straight with him. I like you as a friend, but the chemistry (or what ever is supposed to be there) just isn't there. "I don't have romantic feelings for you."
2007-03-02 15:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you like him. maybe you dont think its right when you think about what other people will say.... but only you can know that. from what you've said you probably are attracted to him, but wait a little longer and see whether you miss him when hes not there. what ever you do, if you find out you do like him, dont lose that opportunity. good luckxx
2007-03-02 15:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction isent a choice , you will not feel it for him he is a nice guy you will feel affection for him like you would to a brother or something but not a sexual attraction woman are not attracted to men who are like woman . Trust me on this .
2007-03-02 16:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thanks for asking this....
I am in EXACTLY the same situation & can't decide either, & it'sREALLY nice to know that others feel the same.
I have know idea what the answer is but when you decide on your fave answer can you email me so I can sort my problem out please. Thanx.
2007-03-02 18:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋