Please help - Did I Do The Right Thing?

Question

Me and my girlfriend have been through ALOT. We've been together a year. We took a break 4 months ago and she was drunk and did **** with another guy. She came back to me and told me she was srry and that she loved me and cried and so on. I took her back. Ever since then i have not been happy with our relationship. I know its because when she did that i lost that feeling you're suppose to have, when you know the other person cares about you. Last night i told her i should have not got back with her that easy, and instead make her work for me because that would have made me feel better. I would have needed her to chase me. I told her i wasn't happy and that i wanted to end it with her. She said she doesn't know what to do. She told me that it wasn't over and that she would do anything as long as we stayed together. She said to give her a chance to let her prove she wants to be with me and show me she cares. I said alright. I really love her and as much as i don't want to end it,

im scared shes not going to come through. Shes not an affectionate person, which bothers me, but i know she loves me. I love her soo much im just not happy any more.

She made out with the guy. nothing else. I was her first for everything except making out, and b4 me she was "saving it". i didnt pressure her or anything it just happened and it was soo special.

Answer 1

once a cheater always a cheater. Cut your losses and move on dude - for a peace of mind