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if ur in middle school/high school/college, is it weird for a girl to like a guy one grade younger?
i do and he doesn't even know me cause we're not in the same grade. and i can't tell my friends because a lot of ppl think it's weird for girls to like younger guys, but it's only 1 year! what should i do to meet him or make him notice me?

2007-03-02 07:31:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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no it isnt i mean age is just a number and its not a big age gap anyways and plus guys dont think its weird to go out with a younger girl so why should it matter. To let him notice you, you can just try something casual by saying something carzy like whats for lunch or somethin not that corny.oh yea ur friends shouldnt mind if you like some one younger they should be the ones given you advice. Hope everything goes well.

2007-03-02 07:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by deeL0VESraz.<3 2 · 0 0

pfft!!! Don't even worry about age, girl! I went out with a guy 4 years younger than me. (bad mistake though.) It depends on how old you are, but in middle school and above.. it really doesn't even matter if it's just a year.

Middle school - 1 year is normally acceptable. sometimes 2.
High school - up to 3 years is normally acceptable. sometimes 4, depending on what level of maturity they are.
College - the older you are, the less age difference matters, basically...

I'm going out with a guy that's 17 and I'm 18 and we love each other to death. We've been going out 7 months now. =)

Don't worry about others because it's a new age.. love has no age... and also it's no different than a guy liking a younger girl. If anyone thinks that it is different.. then tell them that they're very close minded and that they'd might as well be sexist and racist, because they're discriminating age!

Also, to get him to notice you, just say hi to him whenever you see him and try to talk to him (Don't try to force him to if he doesn't want to though) and get to know him. Who knows? You might not even like him once you get to know him. Try to spark up a conversation about something you notice about him that you two have in common. Shared interests are always a way to get someone talking.
You go get that boy to notice! Hope that I helped! ;D

2007-03-02 08:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry bebè! 2 · 1 0

No, i do not think it is weird for a woman to like a man that is one year younger than you. I believe you are a shy woman, maybe you should ask your parents to seek advice on how to approach him. But I do know a few things that could help:

1) Invite him to your table during lunch time

2) Leave a note in his locker

3) Talk to your teachers about your situation after school and see if you can get more advice about this matter.

I hope these small tips help.

Sincerely,

Christopher

2007-03-02 07:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by greatson1 3 · 1 0

It makes perfect sense, and i dont understand the reasoning behind older man younger girl anyway, because a man has a shorter life expectancy than a woman in ther first place!

2007-03-02 07:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Miklo 3 · 1 0

no not at all. It is usually the guy who dates younger because girls mature faster then boys and can relate with the older boys. but does happen that a guy can mature and be up on the same level as an older gal

2007-03-02 07:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Girl go for yours. Who cares if he is one year younger, that is nothing. Try speaking to him to get him to notice you. Just say hi while passing in the hallway. Find out what sport he plays and go to a game. Get him girl!

2007-03-02 07:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lady A 3 · 1 0

It's not weird to like a guy younger than you as long as you really like them

2007-03-02 07:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by mia b 1 · 1 0

it's not too weird.. when I was in high school, I dated a junior when I was a senior and no one thought it was weird.
Just go for it.. if you know any friends that you have might be mutual or just go up to him and ask a question about him or something... and ask if he wants to hang out sometime.

good luck

2007-03-02 07:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by helloworld 3 · 0 0

Not at all. A year is nothing, and the older you get the less it will mean. Younger men are hot!

2007-03-02 07:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by true blue 6 · 0 0

well it is weird because girl never do it but boys do. cause im in that situation now im a 10th grader crushing hard on a 9th grader but i mean i aint said nothing to nobody cause my friends gone have so many answers. but what i say do is try to get his attention but keep it on the DL OF THE DL and keep it just you and him.

2007-03-02 07:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by laneabridges 2 · 0 0

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