Now, I don't smoke often. I'd say I smoke about one cigar a month. She doesn't like it, but I just can't throw away all of my cigars I've had for years (30 count). They're more than a hobby, they're a passion. I'm having a hard time convincing her that I don't get carried away with my cigars and that I always enjoy them for special occasions only. Hell I even have a cigar laid out (aged 9 years) for when we get married. Some help please.
2007-03-02 07:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by jutx2 2 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Send her to the curb.
2007-03-02 15:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Cowboy Jacob 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 00:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying that I agree and admire your use of the word passion when referring to your cigar smoking. Cigars are an art form. I had a girlfriend who hated my cigar smoking, so I always had gum and axe with me when I smoked so it couldn't bother her. Everyone has their hobbys and cigar smoking is one that I have. Not everyone likes it so I make sure I don't subject others to it if they don't like it.
I do not think you should give it up, it is something you enjoy and a healthy relationship is built around mutuality and compromises. You just have to be considerate when smoking so it does not bother her.
2007-03-04 07:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Michael S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your girlfriend is a nag (no offense) and if you give in to this damand she'll keep making more damanding requests to change you. Smoking a cigar once or twice a month is not an addiction and it's sure not gonna kill you so my advice is this tell yer you'll give up smoking cigars if she'll shave her head bald. That will shut her up
2007-03-02 07:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by murduk0420 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will get rid if the cigars if she gets rid of all her shoes/makeup/hair care whatever she cares about . You care as much about your cigars as she does about her stuff and it is important that she understand that.
2007-03-02 07:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by joeinchino2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the ***** to shut up and that you are an adult and u do what you want! It would be understandable if you smoked every minute on the minute but jeeze once a flippin month? She just sounds pathedic!!!
2007-03-02 07:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just something she'll just have to deal with.
Everything isn't perfect all the time.
No further explanation needed.
Don't try to justify your hobby/passion because; most likely you can't.
I'm sure you will have the opportunity to compromise on something you don't like in the future.
2007-03-02 07:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by Caveman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. If she's that controlling over cigars, it will only get worse.
2007-03-02 07:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by joe s 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she doesn't stop bugging you about the cigars that you will start smoking cigarettes
2007-03-02 07:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by angry1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs to learn how to choose her battles. I mean, seriously, you're smoking once a month??? That doesn't even qualify as an annoying habit!
2007-03-02 07:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥uuɐuuǝɾ♥ 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you really love a woman who will allow a man to be himself.
2007-03-03 14:29:02 · answer #11 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋