I cant stop thinking about my ex ? ?

Question

I went out with him for like a year and were still friends i cant stop thinking abot him

Answer 1

Have you thought about contacting him to see if he would like to date again? If he doesn't then the thing to do is realize that it was not meant to be and what you and him had is no longer. If he has moved on then it would be best for you to move on as well, use this as a tool in your other relationships so you know what you can and can not do, there are certainly plenty of guys out there and by dwelling on what you can not have then you could be missing out on something really great.

Answer 2

friends is better then nothing, n u never know the spark might come back, u havent sed if u actually still have feelings for him, as thinking n feeling r totally different things, if u still feel for him, have u told him? he might still feel the same but too scared of saying anything as the realationship is now over n hes not sure on how u feel, decuss ur feelings with him, n if he doesnt feel the same, then find urself another partner n soon the feelings will start to calm n u will c him more as a friend n nothing more, either way u can put ur mind to rest n ull know for sure where u stand!! gud luck, xx

Answer 3

Remember why he's your ex.If it'd been that good,you'd still be together,wouldn't you? It's great that you feel you can still be friends, but really,you're just stopping yourselves moving on. Take a deep breath, kiss him on the cheek,and say bye bye. You need to walk away and put some distance between you,try something-and someone-new. If you still feel the same in 6 months,try again-but my guess is that you'll have started a whole new,happier life. Good luck!

Answer 4

It's only natural that you'll still think about him, and it's good that youv'e managed to remain friends.
Just dont get sucked into the "we're still friends, let's wait and see what happens" saga.
If you really do think theres a chance you may get back together hang on in there, but if he decides he really does just want friendship, then maybe it's time to move on and somebody who will feel the same way about you.

Answer 5

first i would have to ask if u are between men at the moment? could it be that u are just lonely and want what u dont have at the moment? sometimes when we are feeling down and out we tend to go back to what was a good time in our lives and day dream about what we had...why did u split? there had to be a reason...think of all the reasons u arnt with the man anymore...make a list...and if there was no good reason...maybe the time is now right for u two...depends on where he is in his life at the moment..but dont jump into anything..u could just be asking for heartache

Answer 6

Well if you cant stop thinking about him then you guys had somthing that really ment somthin and that you need to go back out with him cause love matters most in the world and if you can stop thinkin of him then you obviously still love him

Answer 7

hey...i dont knw y u say HIM as ur ex...

if the reason is something like he got a new frnd, then just involve urself in some other activities and keep urself busy....

if the reason is mutual, then find someone else who can give u company...

if the reason is from ur side...then figure out wht went wrong and wht made u treat him as ex rather than current...

Answer 8

i really think that if it didnt work out the first time. its not really gonna work out the second time. and i think u need to move on and meet other guys because if u can find a guy like ur ex once u can find another like him out there. u think about him alot because u guys are still frens and u guys hang out... the thing is u have to go out and meet other people. go out on dates.. meet other types of guys. dont set your mind on something that didnt work out. basically stay frens.. because if u guys try it again and it doesnt work out u lost a good fren.. so i say dont push it..and move on.. i hope it works out for ya

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Answer 9

IT WOULD REALLY HELP IF U GAVE US A LIL MORE DETAIL. DID HE DO SOMTHING HORRIBLE? IF YOU BOTH STILL HAVE FEELINGS IT'S WORTH BEING FRIENDS & SEE WHERE THINGS GO. CUTTING SOM1 OUT OF MY LIFE NEVA WORKS FOR ME AS I JUST END UP THINKING BOUT HIM MORE!
IF HE DOESNT TREAT U RIGHT, TRY TO KEEP A DISTANCE BUT TALK TO HIM WHEN U REALLY FEEL LIKE IT. SPEND LOADS OF TIME WITH FRIENDS & DO THINGS THAT DISTRACT YOUR MIND.
IF U WANT TO KNOW WHERE U STAND, HAVE A TALK; IT'LL CLEAR THINGS UP
DONT JUST START SEEING SOM1ELS TO GET OVER HIM AS YOU'LL START COMPARING & STILL THINK ABOUT HIM!

Answer 10

i think you just might still like him. do you imagine yourself being with him, or feeling insanely jealous whenever he so much as looks at another girl? if so, you still have feelings for him. if not, then you're probably simply brooding on your relationship and wish you had gone through it differently.