Usually nope.
My boyfriend and I were friends for a long time before we started dating. Before it was official, we both talked to each other and told each other what we wanted. We were both interested in someone to potentially marry. We already know each other and were really good friends. So from the very start of our relationship, we knew what we were in for. We both want to get married and have kids someday and grow old together. We're in it together for the long haul.
We have been together for over a year and plan on getting married after college. ♥
So for us, we saw it as a long-term relationship from the start... even BEFORE the start...
2007-03-02 07:09:32
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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I think in some ways you can kinda see it happening. But, in part it has to just "happen." Once you get to know the person you can kinda get an idea if you two are well meshed and click together - and furthermore if you are both on the same page as far as the future and where your relationship is going.
2007-03-02 15:10:22
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answered by Rawrrrr 6
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Well you could see you and that person together in the future.... But sometimes those things do sort of just happen, but you have to go with the flow because you never know what the future holds. Anything is possible!
2007-03-02 15:09:59
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answered by Anonymous
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hi..... when you meet some one and feel that the world stopped circling around you and your heart beats are too fast, too loud, then you know that he's the right one to go the distance with
so yes you can see a long term relationship coming up when you choose the right one
Good luck
2007-03-02 15:15:33
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answered by Princess 3
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That depends on how comfortable the two of you are together and if you two have the same goals for the future.
2007-03-02 15:09:57
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answered by curtis t 2
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IF TWO PEOPLE REALLY REALLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP THEY CAN MAKE IT WORK BUT YOU NEED PATIENCE. ALOT OF IT. AND A LOT OF UNDERSTANDING. SOMETIMES ONE PARTY DOESNT REALLY WANT ONE AND THEYRE ONLY LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TOHAVE FUN WITH AT THE MOMENT. THATS WHY YOU HAVE TO ASK ALL THEM QUESTIONS AT THE BEGINNING. AND IF THEY ANSWER YOU HONESTLY AND SAY NO. AND YOU DECIDE TO STAY, THATS YOUR PROBLEM!!
2007-03-02 15:11:46
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answered by Martin L 1
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when the guy start planning for trips together and talking about saving money together or how much he save a month
2007-03-02 15:09:03
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answered by ken401lam 5
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It's as unique as we all are. For me it just happened. For others it's planned.
2007-03-02 15:09:16
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answered by thefinalresult 7
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i think it just happens. i don't really think you can foresee it. i mean maybe you think you could possible want one...but i don't think you count the days.
2007-03-02 15:09:57
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answered by alice_aires 2
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