We havent had sex in 2 weeks...and yesterday when I tried to initiate it, he just went to sleep. I know he is tired from doing his medical residency but before we used to have amazing sex 3 times a week. I know that there is a tendency for people doing their medical residency to hook up with other doctors they work with. Could this be why he isnt having sex with me anymore?
2007-03-02 06:57:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you boyfriend has warned you about what to expect since he is on his way to become a doctor then you know there are going to be times when he will be extremely busy and when he gets home won't have much time to do anything that he wants to do, that might be a reason why he is tired and just wants to sleep. If you think that he is cheating on you then why don't you sit down with him when you can and talk to him and see what he says if he is sincere about not cheating on you and can be honest and look you in the eye then he is not cheating, if refuses to talk to you and does not want to discuss then something could be up but it will be up you to find out what it is and why it is not now happening and find out why he is lying and how come he did not say anything to you in the first place.
2007-03-02 15:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reasons to believe he is cheating? Usually there are other signs too. I think you should plan a nice relaxing evening with him, and let him know how you are feeling. Sometimes when guys have a lot going on, they forget to focus on their lady. Tell him you've been feeling a little neglected, and if he truely loves and cares about you, he will try to make an effort to show you he cares. If he doesnt, well....you get the idea.
2007-03-02 15:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by sunshineasd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have sex with my g/f darn near every day when we started dating, everyone does!
But, it gets old too.
I was Sooooo tired going to college and working two jobs, that sex was pretty much a struggle.
He is probably exhausted, but it's possible that you just aren't that interesting anymore.
Sorry, but there are many reasons why he isn't in the mood.
2007-03-02 15:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how your feeling. Chances are he really is just tired. People going though their residency are usually worked to the brink of exhaustion. Is there anything in his past to make you think he'd be cheating?
2007-03-02 15:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by tjmoore83102 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi .... this medical residency maybe the reason so you need to talk to him..... also you are his girl friend you know a lot about him and you must have seen enough from him that made you know him by heart, only you can feel what's wrong so talk to him and follow your heart
Good luck
2007-03-02 15:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say.
Is he coming home later than usual? Is saying he's going off with the crew after work for a few drinks? I'd watch to see if there are distinct pattern changes.
2007-03-02 15:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG, I'm sorry you don't think your BF is entitled to being a HUMAN. This is how you loose a goodman. Trust him already, or you will loose him to someone who can! Be patient, and try not to pressure him. Now you know how he feels when you don't have sex with him!
2007-03-02 15:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him! of course dont expect honesty...because if he is cheating he probably wont tell u he is. but he will then know u are worried about the relationship...he could be under a lot of stress right now and exhausted..the only way u are going to know it tell him that u miss him and ask him if there is anything wrong...talk!
2007-03-02 15:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by candlelit_dreamz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible that he is cheating, but it is also possible that there is something else going on. The best thing to do is ask him outright what is going on. He may really be that tired and doesn't even realize that you are suspicious. Talk to him, this is the man you love!
Good Luck
2007-03-02 15:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋