It's complicated, but I have a crush on a guy who used to be my worst enemy. I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm afraid I might get rejected because we just started being friends again....what do I do??
2007-03-02 06:49:54 · 23 answers · asked by luckymoonyee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him straight out
2007-03-02 06:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by katie 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, maybe you should think about why you became enemies in the first place? If your friendship could stand that test, being that you made up and are friends again. I suggest you give it a little time. Nothing worth having is gotten easy. However, some of the best and longlasting relationships have started from friendships. Become closer, get to know everything about the person, spend every moment you can with them. Let them know in little way's that you are intersted without spilling the beans. But if you absolutley must tell them now, be prepared. This person could just want a friendship. Good Luck!!
2007-03-02 06:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, life is like that. And sometimes the man upstairs works it out like that. In some of my my experiances, the people that I disliked the most, are GOOD friends now!
You can handle it two ways;
1. You could let the friendship grow and see were it goes. By not saying anything about the way you feel, and just hanging out and getting to know each other. And in the course of this happening the other party will see the attraction. I dont care if they were blind, crippled and crazy, 18 to 80.They will see it, and respond to it if they are interested.
2. You could let him know how you feel and hope for the best. Not saying it would happen. But know that there is ALWAYS a chance of rejection. And no one likes rejection!!!! But to play they game, you HAVE to know the rules.
Last thought:
Remember, we are creatures of habit. And when we get hurt we say "we will never do it again!", but we do. Again and again knowing that at any given time we could get hurt. We can make all the plans in the world but You will find that the heart makes its on plans.
Good luck!!!!
2007-03-02 07:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by oneradartwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for a while and see what happens. The biggest thing that people do wrong is think that they have to verbalize there feelings right after they get a resolution to a problem. Its too early, you all just became friends again.
Just hang out and see if you still like him in a month or two, by then all will be further in the past and you may be able to do Mr. and Mrs. Smith 2.
Ok that was kind of off...but do that and youll be aight
2007-03-02 06:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Star 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You wait until you have become slity better friends then nag on them once in a while, and not pushing it too much either. Trust me I have done it twice, the first time I just out right told them and then we became enemies again. But this way you still have the them as a friend but you still get to brag alittle about that you crushed them.
2007-03-02 06:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by heilosdraco 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do both of you a favor and don't even start this obviously DOOMED relationship destined to wind up on The Maury Povich Show.
It's like watching two trains coming towards each other......you know it is going to get ugly at some point.
You have too much bad blood to start a relationship with this person, one bad incident, and that cat-fighting will start all over again.
Run.
Run as fast as you can in the opposite direction!
2007-03-02 06:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
do not. Be her buddy. Wait it out. make confident she likes you returned. do not choose her by potential of what you already comprehend the two. undergo in strategies you adult men have been enemies? in any case, substitute into her superb buddy, persuade her to be right now, graduate highschool, bypass to MIT, get a job, start up seeing her returned, reignite your passionate lover for her, propose, marry her, have 3 little ones, advance them, lose you're purely son to maximum cancers, and then grieve over him for variety of four years. Then shop on with your existence, get some grandchildren, and die a chuffed previous guy.
2016-10-17 02:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of not wishing a friend on his/her worst enemy? Heed the adice.
2007-03-02 06:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you tell your worst enemy you have a crush on him?
with attitude!
2007-03-02 07:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow this is a pickle, I can't really give u any advice except tell him and good luck. either he'll take it or leave it, that's how life works and you can't change the way someone feels about you.
2007-03-02 06:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by eve25 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend and go slowly. Then maybe sit him down and talk to him about it. You never know what can happen when you talk it out...Do you think he likes you? If so, I say go for it...can't live your live with regrets.
2007-03-02 06:54:43 · answer #11 · answered by Pepper 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋