Yesterday I confessed to my boyfriend that he never really satisfys me in bed... i told him that i loved him even though he really sucks... Should i have just kept on faking it??? should i just let him know i said it because i was mad??? idk what to do.. i saw that he got really hurt.....and its not liek he isnt big or anything he just finishes way to fast....
2007-03-02 06:49:42 · 8 answers · asked by lovepixiek 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have read in a couple of magazines ( I apologize, I don't remember which ones) and they say to sit down together and discuss it and see if there is different ways that you can make love. Maybe try a new fantasy that you have been thinking about or maybe you take the lead.
Try not to insult him, let him know how you feel and maybe he can change his ways.
2007-03-02 06:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Important 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said it to make him mad or sad or hurt him you got it.
Things like that don't make guys "change in bed"or "improve".He will just remain mad and probably leave you.
But it that is how you really feel then good for you.Never fake for anyone.You deserve to have a healthy enjoyable sex life.
Sex life is so short in an adult...why spendt it faking it? If you really love him but still can't seem to hear "music" when you are with him in bed....try to change it around.Tell him what you like.What you want and need.Teach him to touch you.Be the guide, let him explore you.This could be a great opportunity for you both.
2007-03-02 14:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not have been faking it to begin with. Instead talk to him about it, chances are his ego is just bruised. Maybe the two of you can look into doing things together. Tell him what turns you on or if he's really bad at oral sex there are plenty of instruction websites that you can use to learn how to pleasure a woman. Also finishing too fast, he just needs to slow down and focus on something else to calm him down while having sex. It helps to get your mind off the act and that way you can last longer.
2007-03-02 14:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...he must really love you back, to stay with you for sayin' that to him. Us men just have our pride, and yes that is included in our pride. If he started off bad, you didn't make it better, but he probably thought he was doin' damn good lol. If he smokes, that doesn't help, and if he doesn't exercise that doesn't help stamina either. Not to get too personal, but "treat him", and then when its time to actually have sex he'll last longer. The second is always better than the first. I hope for him, and for you
2007-03-02 14:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bossdz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just had to say what needed to be said thats all many of us have things about us that people point out to us it may hurst yes but most of the time it makes us better because now we know what it is and we can fix it you did the right thing
2007-03-02 14:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really did mess up. That was very insensitive. You should have talked with him and came up with some creative ways to make things better.
2007-03-02 14:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old he is, but if he is young, you have a long wait my friend.
2007-03-02 14:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHA its DONE between YOU TWO FOR SURE>>>>NEXT!
2007-03-02 15:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by 7thwonder-answeronigreatness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋