Okay there is this guy, and I like him and we went out 2 days ago for the first time and then again last night (so two days in a row) and we are constantly talking to each other online. What I want to know is it a problem that we havent kissed yet? we hugged the first night, but last night I didnt attempt for the hug... do you think he would have attempted to kiss me if he liked me too?
2007-03-02 06:09:37 · 19 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(sigh) Typical woman... STOP overanalizing the situation and just enjoy yourself. Seriously, woman that analize situations too much usually loose their boyfriends! Just relax and have fun. k?
2007-03-02 06:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by dww32720 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't like you, I doubt he would have gone out with you a second time. He might be shy and waiting for you to make the first move. Your lucky you found someone who isn't trying to get into your pants the first night! He's respecting you and that's always a good sign.
2007-03-02 06:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by unicarel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's actually a NICE guy.
The guy I've been seeing waited a week to kiss me, and that was with me sleeping over at his house and in the SAME bed with him.
It's not weird for a guy to be polite, maybe he doesn't feel comfortable enough to kiss you yet. Don't fret over it, if he likes you enough to take you out, eventually he'll get the nerve to kiss you.
Why rush?
2007-03-02 06:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by fitofhonesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a problem at all. He might be shy. Maybe he's trying to take it slow. The last thing you want is a relationship that gets hot too soon and then fizzles out.
2007-03-02 06:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with not kissing, if you want to make the first move. Maybe he is really nervous about kissing you when you arent comphortable and doesnt want to lose you.
2007-03-02 06:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by mmeghannn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody moves at their own pace... It is possible that he just doesn't want to act too quickly because he might be worried about scaring you away.
Don't take it personally, just gently test the waters. Try making physical contact little by little and gauge his reactions to it...
2007-03-02 06:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by amber ɹəqɯɐ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is taking things slow. I wouldn't worry about it right now. After a few more dates of that same behavior you may want to ask him if he just wants to be friends.
2007-03-02 06:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to get more closer and feel if he liked u too or not because kissing is not the only sign for love .so wait and days will tell u ...............and don`t wait for the kiss
2007-03-02 06:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by cocazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont want to go to fast u only been with each other for only 2 days, give yourself sometime b4 u express yourself, why rush, don't throw yourself at him.
2007-03-02 06:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me explore the feelings 1st..coze its much beautiful to kiss and hug with great amount of feelings.
2007-03-02 06:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋