I used to work with my sisters boyfriend, and one day he came into work...trying his best to hold in his emotions in front of other people...and he said, "I just had the worst night of my life last night!"...and he could hardly look me in the eyes. When we were alone, he confided in me that he had just found out that my little sister had been cheating on him. He was so upset, crying and confused. I was angry and disappointed in her. Over time he decided to forgive her and stay with her....but asked me to promise that I would not tell her that he confided in me. Within a month or so, she was pregnant. He is playing the happy father...and I think trusting that the child is his...I have to wonder. Ever since then, I have no respect for her. She is now a 23 year old mom...who ran out and got a boob-job (huge)...and sticks her son with my parents (who already babysit her son full time for free) so she can go out drinking....again. This is coming between us...what should I do? No one knows!
2007-03-02 06:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by Lost-in-my-Head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
forget about the fact that you know she was cheating and that her b.f. confided in you. why not just confront her on what a selfish b*tch she's being to your parents?
2007-03-02 06:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happens with my parents and my uncle. they always send over my cousin without asking and go off somewhere and never call when they get back so we never know when to send him home! i say send her son home and next time she asks you to babysit say flat out NO if she don't get the message then send her to a self help group because she's an alohcic(i can't spell) and if you have to send the kid toa foster home. it's her son not theirs so she should have to take care of him.
2007-03-02 17:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by ZariaD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋