This is to any female who left him because "i didnt feel the same way anymore" , "I love him but it just feels forced", "I dont see myself with anyone else for the rest of my life, but not now" "I just want to be happy"
And then taken him back
What did he do to win you back?
How long were you together with him before you broke up again(assuming you did)?
To the ones who are still together, do you HONESTLY still love him the same as you did when you first started seeing one another?
2007-03-02 05:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by dieselmave40 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw we dated for 3 years and she transfered a school to be with me, well i took her for granted and treated her the way no one would want to be treated. I admit it, I blew it, but she said she feels those things about me(loves me, sees us together forever), she just doesn't know if things will change right now, and she doesn't feel that way towards me now etc... I'll fill in 90% of your answers now - I am an idiot. to the rest of you, ever had a BF like that and he did show you he changed and you took him back?
2007-03-02 06:09:20 · update #1
Well that's a loaded question! Short history: my husband and I had broken up and gotten back together 3 times before we got married. Since we've been married, we've been on and off too many times to count. So, the question: what did he do to win me back? Nothing. It was me that did something to allow myself to express that love again. I changed. I poked holes in all my reasons for leaving in the first place, and in the end, it just didn't make any sense to be apart. And today, yes I honestly still love him. I love him more today than I did 16 years ago. The love has changed of course, over the years, and today it's more of a companionship, best friend love, than a hot romantic, passionate love. But it's still a very deep love.
2007-03-02 06:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by kari w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 00:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took and ex back, but none of those were any of my excuses for dumping him to begin with. In my case, he always wanted to bring his friends along on our dates. It was a couple years later that I went out with him again, but it didn't work out. He was pretty much still a loser. If those are the excuses that was used on you, there is no chance at getting her to be interested in you again. She wasn't into you to begin with. I guess it could have been worse, she could have said, "It's me, not you". By the way, that statement means it's you. My suggestion is to find a girl that tells you straight what she's thinking and doesn't make you guess. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-02 06:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i will like to read answer too
cuz my x from 3 years ago wants me back and i m not sure
and u know something
she left me but for 2 years and a half she has been piss at me
i was like for what
i will like to know if the female realize what she had and regrets her decision
or u using ur x as an convience since u had ur fun and now u want to settle down and all
u come back to that guy that u once love
fu ckin life is not fair u always gettin screw
2007-03-02 06:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up with my bf once.. but after a week i took him back cause i couldnt stand the situation. i saw him lots of times during the day, and he wouldnt talk to me, and when he looked at me, he seemed SO hurt. i couldnt stand it, cause i wasnt even sure about that decision (i had done it cause in a few months we would have to move to different countries). the worse part came when i saw him one night taking a friend (girl) back to her house walking. i got so sad to see that he wanted to get over me by being with someone else in front of my eyes every day, and the next day i broke up with him. that same night i called him to his cell and asked him to come for a walk and talk. we talked for a loooong time.. he cried, i cried, i coudlnt see him like that, and we decided to be 2gether until the last day we spent in the country. it was sad episode, but i don't regret the final decision. it was worth it to spend the time with him till the end. now i still miss him and love him.. honestly.
kss!
2007-03-02 06:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by martiña 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it didnt matter what he did it just annoyed me leave her alone and if she comes back then great if not there is nothing you can do...just let her know ONCE that you still want her..wait for a couple of weeks or untill your rady then move on...im going through the same thing right now just on the other side of the door.
2007-03-02 06:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cutiepieblueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never taken back a boyfriend because i feel that the problems that caused you to break up will come back out again eventually.
2007-03-02 06:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope I've never taken back an ex simply because we broke up for a reason and whatever the reason is, it wasn't working so why believe it'll work again ?? It's better to keep them as friends....
2007-03-02 06:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow this sounds just like my last relationship....i loved him with all i had and we brok up plenty of times and i always took him back...but he never changed and never learned his lesson...i loved him and when we broke up i saw that he did love me...but 2 years later after all that he never changed and took me for granted and treated me like crap he never showed me how much he supposidly cared, so i finally broke it off for good, and now he is miserable...but i told him i was gone before and you didnt learn and your not going to...and i feel good..somtimes loving someone isnt enoff you need to be loved back
2007-03-02 06:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow he apoligized begged for forgivness and told me he didnt want no one else i was the one and he loved me more than anything ang i completed him and changed his life yea i took him back and now were happy as ever hes the one im suppose to be with and yes i love him as i did when i first started dating him and i love him even more !!
2007-03-02 06:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by lovewishes19 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋