well its the big week, my gf is returning from a 2 week long vacation to cuba, and i cudnt be happier, there is of course the fact that i am a bit worried that she cheated on me up there, the details of how i know this are a bit too personal but i tihnk she might have, does anybody know any ways or things that i could do to her when she gets back to find out if she has cheated or not???? and it can be anything from looking at how she reacts to saying something clever to see if she cheated, just give me any tips plz, and nothing like check her phone bills or email plz, im not nosey enuf to do that, thnx
2007-03-02 05:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down with her and ask her.
2007-03-02 16:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to tell you about the trip. Seem legitimately interested. Ask her about clubs she went to, people she hung out with. The key is, make it seem like you just want to talk about how awesome her trip was, not that you're interrogating her on what she did. Once she starts talking, you should be able to tell if she's being vague, or defensive.
Make sure that before you start getting into this conversation, that she doesn't feel like she's being attacked. Then she'll hide it more and more. If she talks about how she was hanging out with the same group of people more than one day, get her talking about them. If she mentions the same guy more than the others, and she says how cool he was or how funny (note, she has to be comfortable talking to you about the trip to be telling you about the people she hung out with), then chances are you might have a key into what happened.
Or just trust her. It's all on what you think you can handle. Either believe her that she didn't do it, question it all the time in your head, or find out the truth.
Good luck!
2007-03-02 13:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are supposed to have the word "trust" in them to work out. I would assume you are friends also to have a relationship...so tell her your feelings and insecurities and ask her point blank if she cheated on you while she was gone.
best way is straight forward and to the point without the games.
be cool...
2007-03-02 13:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know if anyone has actually cheated on you unless you have proof-And you can only get that proof by being nosey.
See if she acts guilty around you...
2007-03-02 13:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her and leave it at that. It sounds as if you already know, so what do you need from her? Tell her what you know and see what she says.
2007-03-02 13:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...but you already know, as the details are a "bit too personal".
Go with what you've got. If that isn't enough, you've got nothing but her word.
2007-03-02 13:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea dude look how she reacts, if she doesnt respond right away to questions, or avoids eye contact, acts fidgety those are all indications she was cheating,,,i think she did anyway cuz girls are dirty dirty slu.ts
2007-03-02 13:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by 7thwonder-answeronigreatness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she met anyone ask her how the trip went and then belive her!!!....
2007-03-02 13:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋