Okay, lemme get straight to the point. I'm 15, Hispanic, smart, funny, and I would take care of the girl I am with. Problem is, I've never had a girlfriend. Girls take one look at me and turn away (keep in mind that I look almost exactly like my avatar, only with no earing and a mustache). If girls would get to know me better, and look on the inside instead on the outside (that's what I do), they would see me in a whole new light. Your opinion, ladies?
Until next time,
Vato
2007-03-02 05:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by Shadow369 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you say you look like your avitar then you look cute. if you want you can give me your number and i'll get to know you, if you want.
2007-03-02 05:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk this one up to age. Being a teenager is a tough time especially if you arent one of the "perfect" people. You are being judged by your peers on looks alone and unfortunatly this may not change for a while. Every one wants to date the pretty people right now, but in the long run these are not always the people you want to bring home to mom. Give it some time, I know you want to be in a relationship now, but you also dont want to date someone for the sake of being with someone alone. Its the good people that find true happiness down the line. Im sure that you would treat any woman with love and respect and that is truly a wonderful thing. Dont confuse your desperation with the ignorance of your peers. Good luck, you will find love and it will be worth your wait.
2007-03-02 05:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you are learning how women/girls are treated. People see the outside first, and it only takes 20 seconds to 'read' somebody.
Perhaps your ideas of smart and funny are too much for most girls. Male and female humor is a lot different, and not always understood by both sides. Try being low key, and wait until someone speaks to you, then smile and be friendly, not aggressive. Get rid of the facial hair...it scratches when you kiss a girl, so naturally they want to avoid that. Best wishes
2007-03-02 05:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence Vato, but you're still young. There's plenty of time to be getting your heart broken so your time will come... You're right though - people should look on the inside too, & the right woman will. She'll love you for you, so don't bother changing (unless you have personality problems ;) ) You just obviously haven't met the right one yet...
2007-03-02 05:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by kyls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your right the girls that look at you and than turn away are silly hey should at least try to get to know you but do not get discouraged you will find someone
2007-03-08 18:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might consider losing the 'stache...most girls your age would rather see your baby face. try making friends with girls first, without worrying about what might happen in the future. then, they get to know the real you, and if feelings do grow into something else, you have a strong basis for your relationship.
2007-03-02 05:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave the mustache, I'm guessing it gives you a very speedy Gonzalez look.
2007-03-02 05:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 15, you have your whole life ahead of you, most people dont take the time to get to know each other as a person, just looks and superficial things, dont worry honey it will happen when its supposed to.
2007-03-02 05:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would probally date.....if i didnt have a boytfriend
2007-03-02 05:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋