We have had a stressed relationship the last couple of months mainly due to us getting pregnant unexpectedly and having our worlds turned around. Im getting a hotel for us saturday to have some personal time without the baby, our parents, and our friends. He's a manly man with a sensitive side when it comes to me. Im already getting him a six pack cause beer relaxes him, what else can I do to make him just forget about all the stress and worries he has for one day?
2007-03-02 05:24:25 · 16 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Duh, we are goin to have sex but i wanna take this experience and this time together to a whole other level
2007-03-02 05:34:02 · update #1
Do I even have to say the obvious????
Other than THAT - draw him a bubble bath and give him a massage. Make him king for a day.
Kudos to you to step up and take care of your man!
2007-03-02 05:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by sierraskyesmom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slip him a rohypnol, or valium.. etc.
ha.
Most guys I know just want to watch sports, drink beer, get a BJ and fall asleep. At least, that's a good definition of relaxing....
They don't like feeling there are expectations or demands. So maybe just getting the room and beer is *almost* enough. I'd suggest just being relaxed around him... to not really expect anything. Obviously, making physical suggestions is fine. ha.
Don't think of it as a win/lose situation where a goal has been met if he achieves a certain level of relaxation.
2007-03-02 05:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by mystère 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't bring nothing up about home. just act like yall just met and have no real life issues let him drink his beer and just rub his body down. tell him you love him very much while you are doing it. and if you are into oral then give hime oral periodically through out the day and night. just make him feel so good all over that he can't help but to relax.
2007-03-02 05:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by curtis t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you tell/show him that he is still the best one for you. And, avoid talking about problems or things that need to be fixed. Guys always want to solve problems and that might raise the stress level.
2007-03-02 05:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by NWK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the gym together - man feels best when the adrenaline is pumping up in his veins after few good hours of training. and then the massage and the beer and all that staff
2007-03-02 05:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is Homer Simpson he already has the beer he only misses the TV (ha-ha).
Repeat what you did 9 months before you gave birth.(safe this time)
2007-03-02 05:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Takis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to take a hot bath with him. Sit behind him and let him lean back into your arms. Wet his hair and stroke it slowly. 30 minutes of this will be very thereputic.
2007-03-02 05:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dagdagan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have to ask you have more problems than I can help with. Here's a hint.....what did you do that got you pregnant in the first place?
2007-03-02 05:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
bring another woman along... a threesome is just what he needs to get his mind off of the day to day stress that come from an oopsie baby...
2007-03-02 05:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
beer is not the answer - may turn him into an alcoholic - how about a nice massage
2007-03-02 05:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by kelbean 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋