If you were got married and your partner didn't want to have kids, would you divorce them so you can find a new partner that will have kids? Will you still leave them even after you are very much in love with your partner? explain how come.
2007-03-02 04:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have discussed this before marriage.
No means no. You can't force someone to change their mind about this.
If you maried on the presumptionn that you could persuade them otherwise you are a fool.
If it means everything to you, then you have to choose.
2007-03-02 04:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously want kids. The mate you are with does not. You are not a good match. Are you in love, or in lust? I would leave, because if you want kids it will always be on your mind and this can cause depression. You two are obviously going in different directions.
Then again, we change over time and this person may want a child in the future. The main thing you need to ask yourself is weather you are in love or in lust with this person.
2007-03-02 04:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Paul S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if having kids is really important to me then my partner should at least try to come to some understanding with me and allow me to have at least one so as to keep me satisfied but if after trying to get him to compromise and if he does not in any way i would leave because he does not really care about me as he says he does
2007-03-02 04:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this should hane been discussed befor you got married
2007-03-02 05:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋