I have liked this girl for the longest time now, and I asked her out, but she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship, then she decides to go out wit my boii who i knew for about 3 years...When i see them kissin, and huggin, and holdin hands, and flirting it like ripps my heart out and stabs it like 5 times with a butcher knife...what does this mean and what do I do?
2007-03-02 04:39:28 · 11 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only solution
forget about this girl , because if u keep thinking about her , then u will die from sadness
i think that u should think about ur life and who know?
may be in the future u meet a girl better than her and u will say thank you god for didnt complete our love story to meet this new beautiful gir
it will be hard to forget about her at the first but believe me after that u will continue ur life with happiness
2007-03-02 04:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may talk to this girl again and tell her again that you would like her to be your girl (she may 'reject you' again) and you may also simply say 'I may love her but she obviously doesn't love me and I have to move on' ... but I think that you need to 'separate yourself' from both this girl and your friend and take some 'breathing space' for a month or two to 'get over it' ... then go out and join a group to do something different and fun ... and I'll bet that you will find the 'right girl' for you ... maybe not right away, but that 'someday' will be closer if you can 'forget' your friend and this girl NOW.
2007-03-02 05:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible. I know how that feels.
Did your best friend KNOW you liked her? because if he knew, then that is an awful thing for him to do. If not, then you should speak up to your good friends if you like someone. Because you never know, maybe he secretly liked her too. I know how this feels, so i completely understand. She did not do it to get at you so don't be mad at her, maybe she just had always liked him, and she was nice enough not to lead you on by saying yes to you if she just was not interested.
I think the best thing you ccan do is talk with your friend, find out his feelings for her, and admit that you always liked her (to him, not her) beause if he truly likes her, then don't you want what is best for your friend?
I hope it all works out with no one having hard feelings in the end.
2007-03-02 04:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by erockairheaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the starting up, once you're boyfriend has stayed with you even inspite of the truth that he would not savor each and each of the partying/smoking etc. he likely must be with you regardless. human beings will settle for flaws in others in the journey that they intend to make it artwork. 2d, the different lady who's affirming that you're literally not as reliable is of route attempting to console a buddy and strengthen her self belief. in no way did she say that your boyfriend became for particular going to leave you for her. She only wanted to make her buddy experience more suitable positive regardless of the truth that if it became for a shitty reason (i imagine liking human beings in relationships is off limits) third, do not come to the top that your bf likes this chick and is going to leave you only because of what they stated. obviously she will attempt to rationalize her own thoughts by technique of affirming those issues, i'm particular you are able to too. yet i imagine perhaps you ought to talk over with him about it if it truly is making you this disenchanted. tell him that you imagine she's getting too close and also you do not desire her putting round him as a lot. That or computer screen his habit round her and see in case you spot any issue. Plus, supply up smoking, I advise c'mon you recognize what it does to you and he would not like it.
2016-12-05 03:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she is into your best friend (kind of like the movie love accuily). Sorry there is nothing you can do about it but cherish her friendship. If your bro knew you liked her so much before he started dating her I would say he isn't the best friend but I still don't think it's something to loose a friend over.
What you need to do is get over this girl and find someone who is going to make you happy...trust me even though sometimes it sucks being single isn't so terrible.
good luck
2007-03-02 04:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means ur jealous of ur mate. U should tell her how u feel abt her nd say dat u care abt her. Don't harass her 2 much. Write her a poem nd buy her a nice present. Something dat she likes.
2007-03-02 04:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by beckham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she likes you as a friend, and not a boyfriend.
I think that your best friend knew that you liked her, and he may have been wrong for going out with her.
Just back off, and hang out with them as less as possible.
2007-03-02 04:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should tell you that you really do care for this girl. But the mature thing to do is to let her be happy. I know its rough and hard but do you want her to be miserable, really? I dont think that you do. Maybe you should consult your friend and her about it before you get to tense to even see them.
2007-03-02 04:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do first talk to her ask her that give you time to talk ,tell her that its importand that you have to talk about it .tell her that you like her whether she like or not atlest she knows what you feel she knows that you got hurt but you have to tell each other about it.im sure your importand to her as a friend you have to respect that.tell her no matter what happen im here with you as a friend even its hurt but you have to do it wherever shes happy be happy for her.you hurt when they are together thats fine you got hurt when you feel real love.im sure your importand to her just think first her happinest .when she got hurt she run to you im sure .
2007-03-02 05:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by cheryl f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you liked her first and if he doesn't believe you, tell him to as her. If she lies, than you know that she's not right for you. You seem like a really nice guy, and she doesn't seem like such a nice girl. And your friend shouldn't have done that.
2007-03-02 04:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋