**note this is advice not for me**
I found out that my girlfriend (4yrs) and mother of my 19mo daughter is planning to leave me. And go back to cleveland from lexington KY, where we are now. i found a whole folder from Ryan homes with floor plans and everything. she already has the property picked out to build on! shes in an employment contract that holds her here untill the end of the school year (shes a teacher). Ive known since a week before new years. (merry christmas to me) But i dont know how much longer i can keep it to myself. Should i wait to see what/if she tells me? Should i admit i know? Should i just leave her b4 she leaves me? I just don't know what to do. any advice will be appreciated.
2007-03-02 04:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do ur best and dont leave her
try in this days to make her happy by anything she loves
try to draw a smile on her face
know the problems that lead her to leave u
then discuss it
find solutions to ur problems and then be happy in ur life
if she wants to leave u whatever u do then dont think about her anymore and think about ur life
and never be sad because she dont deserve to be a wife to nice person like u
2007-03-02 04:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
I think I would confront her about this pronto. After all she isn't JUST your girlfriend, she is the mother of your child and I think she owes an explanation to you at the very least.
I would start by asking her about what you found and what it means exactly to your relationsip.
Has she been acting strangely? Spending less time at home, finding excuses to go places without you or generally appearing to have lost interest?
If you found out your information due to "snooping" and you are afraid that she will be angry with you over that... too bad. You have the information you need to confront her with and you should do so.
Maybe this can be resolved and I hope so. See if counseling is an option as well. Sounds like you have definately had a communication break down!
I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck .... Thoughts are with you.
2007-03-02 12:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have been together for 4 years, they should be able to communicate! And the mother has to get "permission" from the father to move a minor child out of state. If the mom up and moves the child out of state (whether she has full custody or not) the father can take her to court.
the key is COMMUNICATE!!!!
2007-03-02 12:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by ms. mechanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calmly sit down and discuss the situation.
2007-03-02 12:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her she what she wants.
2007-03-02 12:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by cas12211221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUIT YOUR CRYING YOU DYKE BIT(H
2007-03-02 13:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋