I really like this guy and all but I'm really shy. What should I do?
2007-03-02 04:38:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW!! yeah, it's hard for me to ask out a guy to. SO, i don't!! I just say "hey want to do something this weekend or hang out" that way it's not a "date" but we get to spend time together!!! ; )
Good Luck hun!
2007-03-02 04:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by P!NK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go for it...Girls put everything on the guy [eg. Guys have to ask the girls out, guys have to ask the girl to dance, guys have to open the door for girls;ect.] I've asked some of my guy friends and they said that they'd really like if a girl asked them out instead of them doing it all the time. Just ask the guy to a movie or something and if you like yu could bring a friend and their boyfriend/girlfriend. But dont be afraid yes rejection hurts sometimes but everyone goes through it and its not the end of the world if you do get rejected. Also it helps if you've had convercations with this guy! cause alot of my friends like guys they dont even know there names! Good Luck!
2007-03-02 12:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by xpoisonousxinjectionx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should if you meet the requirements:
1. You are 16 years and above
2. Rejection will not "ruin" your whole life after
3. The crush is a nice guy with a good personality, and not some flirtatious quarterback from a football team.
2007-03-02 12:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Davileo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see that's not you that ask guys out it's the guy. But if you really want to go out with him. You should start to know him better and then maybe a day he will ask you out but if you're too shy to do that you should try to make you notice. Smile at him when you walk alwasy try the eyes contact and then he will talk to you trust me
2007-03-02 12:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by asian pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he's dating someone seriously, and if he's not ask him out for coffee or a smoothie. Something quick so if it's uncomfortable then you'll be off the hook soon. If everything goes well the get a real date to the movies or even dinner.
2007-03-02 13:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't ask him out. Chances are if you REALLY like him, he knows it, and if he hasn't asked you out, he will probably shoot you down when you ask him out. I know this sounds awful, but you should save yourself the humiliation, if anything, have a friend of yours find out that he even likes you back, and if he does, then you should proceed in asking him out, but if not... it's a good thing you found out first, right?
2007-03-02 12:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have one of ur friends find out if he likes u, then if he does u won't be shy 2 ask him
2007-03-02 12:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by SarahBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ask ur crush out its hard the one thing u should do is tell him you like him first then ask if he likes you then your gonna have to take it from there
2007-03-02 12:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by devandanielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it the way kids in elementary school do it...via love note..
example:
i like you...do you like me?
circle yes or no
idk boys are a waste of time and tons of unwanted stress!
2007-03-02 12:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go up to him person to person. Then he will know you have courage, because you went up to him without having friends do it.
2007-03-02 12:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋